We all look 4 the perfect partner, however they are not real. People see the look as important. I mean I see myself as not ugly or really pretty. just me. I am a size 10 blonde and 5f 3ish. a meduim size bum and nice size breast. my teeth are not perfect at the bottom. However I am happy with myself. so why do men look at the breast and the bum and the perfect teeth nice smile and thats it. Don't my brains come into it. I am a good person and I have feelings.
2006-09-29 09:50:45 · 11 answers · asked by hatfieldnomi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you dont want another to rate ur looks than you need to start describing yourself in a different way as well, all i read is how you look, not who you are as a woman, think about that for awhile
2006-09-29 10:10:23 · answer #1 · answered by lifemanagementprogram 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its their nature to look at our body first before anything else and also some women are to blame for their actions as well. If a lot of girls didn't wear their jeans tight or have the chest hanging out appearance wouldn't be such a big deal. I'm not saying women are the only ones to blame. Society (media) has had a big impact on appearance, the way they believe women are suppose to dress. I mean look at all the commercials and music videos what's popular right now is your bum and how good you can shake it. So that's how the majority of guys today view us.
2006-09-29 09:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by Justice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be live it or not I would rather a gurl with brains. Yes the big breast are nice but what do they do nothing. If I can a great conversation with the person. Then I'm happy I don't need a someone that all they can is like do what like I did today he he. I'm sorry but I don't need Paris Hilton.
2006-09-29 10:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by Adam K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are usually the first attraction or attention getter. You can say something clever the next time you notice a guy, let him know there is more to you then just looks. I am a woman and looks are important to me as well, but if there is nothing there intellectually or otherwise, I am outta there. You have to work with what you have, but don't let looks be the only thing they see!
2006-09-29 09:55:15 · answer #4 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most places your likely to meet someone u will see them before you chat to them so there has to be the physical attraction. Even in a relationship that has been going on sometime you still have to find the other person attractive. however to keep it going there has to be something else about it as well. Quiet nights in with that person, u have to be able to stick being around them so intelligence, a fun personality and getting on with that person are an essential but to begin with, the physical attraction has to be there to kick start the whole relationship.
2006-09-29 10:05:03 · answer #5 · answered by Shortman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are visual and the more visual appealing at first glance the more they are drawn to you. Women are oral and emotional meaning they want to feel love and hear things that make them feel loved. Men want to be attaracted to a woman sexually often first.
Your brains are only a small piece of the attraction to most men
Its sad but true
2006-09-29 09:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physical attraction is personal opinion. But so many people are brainwashed by shallow TV and think that certain people are ugly just cos they don't look like people on TV.
2006-09-29 10:54:27 · answer #7 · answered by cloud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because alot of guys arnt mature yet. And want chicks that look like the models in ads and on tv. And some chicks are like that too. You will find the right guy for you. It took me along time to finally find a guy who likes me for me and my brain and not my body. Just take your time and you will find that guy who likes you for you and your brain.
2006-09-29 10:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by steph_735 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think we look 4 a "perfect" partner, we look 4 a partner who is perfect 4 us, their flaws and all.
and it's not how sexy u look, it's how sexy u make ur prospective partner feel.
when i met my man i didnt fancy him but he made me laugh and i began 2 feel comfortable round him and now i fancy the pants off him, we now have a 9 month old baby boy.
2006-09-29 10:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and we always want what we know we cant have...its all about the mystery....but as with everything else..you can have a mate thats the most beautil, perfect body and can be a real btch..what fun is that..and vice versa for the girls
2006-09-29 09:54:39 · answer #10 · answered by Liz M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋