i am white, and for some reason i like black guys? why?
i don't like hip hop or gangsta style, so why?
i really want to try to date one, seems like they like me back
2006-09-29 09:48:09 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is just what you prefer dear. We all have our likes and dislikes. If that makes you happy, then all is fine....
2006-09-29 09:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married to a black man. He isn't 'gangsta style' and doesn't listen to 'hip hop' since he's from the Bahamas. I wasn't attracted to him because he was black but because he is a great guy. I was attracted to men of other ethnicities before him though, maybe it's the contrast. Even the white guys I liked mostly had dark hair and dark eyes. It's just a matter of preference. I don't recommend dating someone just because he's black though...just date quality guys that you're attracted to. You may or may not end up with a black guy but you will end up happy that way.
2006-09-29 09:55:36 · answer #2 · answered by Kelly S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So date a black guy. Whats the problem. There's nothing wrong with being attracted to someone of a different race. Its not like they're a different kind of human. And hiphop and gangsta styles are not the only thing that define black people, just as boy bands and neil diamond don't define white people.
2006-09-29 09:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your question shows that you have stereotypes about black males... the gangsta style, hip hop.. etc. Not all black males are into this type of thing. Your stereotypes make it unbelievable that you would like a black male...
when you grow up and see people for who they are, instead of their skin colour and what you think they represent then you can enter the real world of dating and relationships. Your stereotypes will just aggravate a black male and for that matter will aggravate anyone who is clued up about society. What is the matter with you? I cant even continue typing about this ... your comments just irritated me.... Eghhhh!!!
2006-09-29 09:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by Just me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would have to have more information than that to give you a reasonable answer. i would need information about former relationships, where you live, how old you are, etc........ what is it that black men have or do for you that white men don't? interracial relationships are more widely accepted in European countries. hear black men see white women as trophies and something to show off. black women resent that and white guys do not like following in the footsteps of black men. that old myth about black men being better lovers than white men is just that a myth. i have slept with both and my understanding is there is not much difference except black men are not as willing to give oral sex as white. and the myth about black men having longer penises isn't true either. the average size for a male in the US is 5 1/4". the man with the largest penis on record was a white man, john holmes at 12 7/8".
2006-09-29 10:03:26 · answer #5 · answered by handyman5218 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only different about black males and white is their skin colour nothing else.. just cause you prefer a certain colour doesn't always mean that their the one's for you. and your saying you dont like hop hop or gangster style.. how stereotypical are you being? your basically saying that all black males are into that?? think again..
and just cause your white don't mean you can't get a black male just get out there and see what happens.. but don't judge them on their skin colour!! good luck with that :)
2006-09-29 09:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by uniqu3ang3l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a few things. You could be into them because most white dudes all seem the same to you. Or you could be one of those chics who wants to annoy your parents. Or maybe you are just hard wired to dig the brothers.
2006-09-29 09:53:04 · answer #7 · answered by Chivalry77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there going to like you back..there is a black dude who would love to have a white girl..no matter what she looks like or whatever..how many old fat white girls you see with black guys?..you like what you like..go for it..interracial couples are hot anyways...
2006-09-29 09:50:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with that, maybe you like the skin color or the big eyes, or the full lips. In my opinion, as long as the guy respects you and is a good person, it doesn't matter what color or race he is!
2006-09-29 09:52:59 · answer #9 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My mom is cuban and my dad is from India.
If you like somebody, go for it.
Its so not their color that counts. I know it sounds cheesy, but thats the only way you'll get anywere!
2006-09-29 09:51:45 · answer #10 · answered by Dominique-Duh! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋