Okay there is this guy I've been dateing on and off since I was 16 years old, I'm 25 now and once again he saw me at a party and ask me do I want to try to work things out again. I'm lost because back in the day when we were talking he would never ask me to be his girlfriend, but everytime we stop talking I would here that he goes with some other girl.Why the hell does he approach me and then shy away from a relationship with me, it's been 9 years and he's still on the same thing what would you guys do!!!
2006-09-29 09:43:55 · 26 answers · asked by Mycan Moneek 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're brilliant for this guy. You are his rebound s###. What about when you meet someone else? Do you still go with him? Tell him you have moved on and most of all grown up. You want more than that from a relationship now.
2006-09-29 09:47:48 · answer #1 · answered by flumoxed 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you used to date him when you were 16, you were younger and less aware. You probably let **** slide that you would never let slide now. Now that you are mature and everything, he just isn't going to cut it for you. Been there, done that. It sounds like you don't want anything with him anyways and if that's how you feel, then don't hook up with him. Why is it convenient for him to come around when he wants to? If you're not feeling him or the situation, then don't waste your time. People grow up and look back like what was I thinking?
2006-09-29 16:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For 9 years and he still not grow up, that's the answer for you. Please by gone let by gone. He's not worth your love. Think of him as an old friend. No obligation. Talk to him when you want to, not because you have to or he wants to. Be strong and walk straight. Life is too short to waste on the guy like him. Good luck.
2006-09-29 16:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by TheOne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up, sweetie........you are not 16 any more. I would think that age 25, you would be more mature! Why are you even giving this guy a second thought? I cannot see why he would want to be with you other than, in the past,
"you put out".
2006-09-29 16:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can go out with him but remember that if for last 9 yrs he has been doing the date and leave game, then chances are very high that he will do it again. You have to decide if it is worthwile for you to risk being hurt by him again or not.
Personally, I would not go out with the girl who did that to me for 9 yrs even if I was madly in lover with her.
2006-09-29 16:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look plain and simple this guy is a player. He wants what you have to offer, and then he wants what another lady has to offer. He cannot be satisified with just one lady. Look leave him alone and move on in and find someone that really likes and cares for you.
2006-09-29 16:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For once say no. Tell him you don't need a repeat of his last few stops in your life. You take control cause you have let him just walk in and out of your life long enough. Bet that will totally take him by surprise'
2006-09-29 16:47:57 · answer #7 · answered by sosueme534 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to walk away from this guy I think he is playing mind games with you.
If you dont walk away he will keep hurting you
If you dont want too walk away sit down with him and try and get him too talk to you
GOOD LUCK in what ever you do GOD BLESS
2006-09-29 16:53:36 · answer #8 · answered by jambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's kind of silly to wonder why people did things at age 16 that they aren't doing now.
I think if you want to date him now (though I don't know why you would want to), pretend you just met and get to know who he is at his current age, not who he was as a teenager. It's kind of pointless to try to understand something meaningless that happened in high school, don't you think?
2006-09-29 16:47:33 · answer #9 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not waste another minute on that loser. Did you ever hear the expression "having your cake and eating it too" well this clown wants to have his fun, and keep you hanging on a string and then maybe he will want you. Move on sister!!
2006-09-29 16:48:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋