there's this guy and I like him alot he's a kind of guy that you stare at alot and he won't talk to you unless you're the one that starts the conversation so I said hi to him today and of
course he said hi but the hard part is how to talk
to him without one of my friends saying ooooo marissa he likes you and then he turns red and runs away but the thing is he doesn't like me I like him how do I keep talking to him without getting nervous
2006-09-29 09:34:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is probably cute and gets this all the time. Try actually being his friend and I bet you have a good friend for life.
2006-09-29 09:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by sosueme534 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave your friends behind! No guy will get personal with you if your friends are looking at him over your shoulder. Be real with him, he is probably even more nervous than you it sounds like. Use some humor to open him up. Ask him questions that require more than a yes or no answer and show him you are listening. Be patient and let your friendship grow for a while, then put on a little flirt to see where he's at.
2006-09-29 09:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by marcus K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marissa, I don't know how old you are, but your friends could cut you some slack and back off the poor guy. Sounds like if you keep talking to him off and on, maybe you could get to know him and he'd relax a little. If he really doesn't like you and you know that, then give it up and go away. That's really the best I can say right now. Maybe you could sneak him a friendly (but not embarrassing) note. Some guys that are shy do fine with note-writing. Best of luck.
2006-09-29 09:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is hard but friends will be the thing for you,its tempting to do other things but hey at least this way you will always have him close to you.my first boyfriend is now my best friend it was just easier for the both of us we have a bond that no one can break we've been friends for 15 yrs
2006-09-29 09:40:51 · answer #4 · answered by CURIOUS1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep doing it, he'll eventually get used to you and not be nervous anymore. although he sounds very shy, so if there is going to be any sort of date, you need to do the asking, and ask him alone, not with anyone around. cuz his reaction may be diffrent.
2006-09-29 09:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out.
2006-09-29 09:37:02 · answer #6 · answered by Ale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's easy. just find the things you don't like or just realize he doesnt like you like that
2006-09-29 09:39:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hurt him.
2006-09-29 09:37:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋