a ring or cds.....HMMM HELP!!!?

Question

me and my bf of almost a year went to the mall the other night, and we were walking past the jewelry counter, and i saw this gorgeous opal ring, and it was only $35, i asked him to buy it for me, and he said no, that he had no money. so i was bumming a little, but just yesturday he Charged 2 cds and a video game on his credit card! i dont know what to do..im mad, he never buys me anything, not even on my birthday...im not trying to be selfish, but i buy him things all the time, i just think i deserve something....and for gods sake..all i wanted was a $35 FAKE OPAL RING>....so any comments...am i being selfish? or do i need to speak up?

Answer 1

doesn't buy you anything for your birthday? he sounds very selfish. speak up and tell him how you feel. maybe stop buying him things for a while - see how he like it, spend your money on yourself xxx

Answer 2

I think that you should speak up. The one thing that I Think helps a relationship is that the couple thinks of each other rather than theirselves. I don't think that you are being selfish, but you also have to realize that guys are just that way sometimes. Did you get him anything for his birthday? You have to be very blunt with them at times. If he gets mad and breaks it off, then I think that you'd be better without him. All in all it's really up to you on what you do. But I think that you should let him know that it hurt your feelings.

Answer 3

And you had to have it!
Otherwise, like, you might die!

Ok, material girl. Dump the poor guy and get a sugar daddy.
At least you'll get what you want then.

Girls like you are like crows and tinfoil

"OOOOHHH SHINY!!!"

Answer 4

I honestly can't fathom ever asking ANYONE to buy me ANYTHING. If he chooses to spend his money on himself, that is his perogative. If you don't like it, it's your perogative to break up with him.

Answer 5

You should be mad! He needs to put others before himself...