Any girl been in love, and think that they have the right guy, even though he makes them cry? Give your AGE and personal expirience, please.
2006-09-29 09:01:38 · 16 answers · asked by Green Tea Happy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never play by such a hard and fast rule .
People who preach that crap dont belive in compromise .
You need to make a value judgement on him .
You wont always agree.
You wont always get along .
With hard work from both of you and compromise from each of you those tears will be rarer and rarer ,
2006-09-29 09:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I *thought* I was in love with a guy. He was personally beating me up mentally. I was getting blamed for stuff that he caused. I'd get call horrible names for no reason. He played stupid games with me..to make sure "I loved him." Which was completely stupid. I look back now..and he made me cry A LOT. I didn't fall in love with the guy that did that. I fell in love with the guy that he was. So, in a way I'm still in love with him..I'm just not into the way he turned into. I did some stuff to him..(he probably deserved it) that wasn't so nice..but this didn't really affect anything..he was the same nasty way he was before I started doing mean things.
Sure, you're probably going to cry some point even when you're married or in a long-term relationship. But, it's different when he makes you cry. If he feels terrible and starts crying himself..and he honestly truly is sorry..that's someone worth your tears.
2006-09-29 09:08:36 · answer #2 · answered by Rozlyn P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well we are human aren't we ?
But I must agree, don't waste you're time on someone who isn't worth those tears!
Now if someone is willing to comfort you, be sensitive to you're feelings; then by all means, embrace that and run with it ...
A real man will cry with you, not make you cry for him. (as long as he is still amongst the living)
2006-09-29 09:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by deb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally agree with offensive
he hit in on the spot
women nippick on everything
my man dont do this dont do that
if women stop nip picking maybe they will be happy
with the right man
many women i know have had the right man in front of them
but there curiosity or sense of excitement drove them distance each other
there s no such thing as a perfect individual and it goes for both men and women
just take as it is
if he loves respect and honors u
that the right formula to be happy
2006-09-29 09:07:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm too old to give my age, but if a man has hurt me and made me cry- intentionally- then I know he's not for me.
Good men don't hurt you. Good men would die before they make you cry. Good men want you to feel secure and happy and loved and full of joy. Bad men don't care if you feel worried and insecure and miserable.
2006-09-29 09:08:50 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 18 and I have been through that but love heals pain and love causes pain...Love is pain where ever love is, pain is never far away. So at some point you will shed a few tears but it all depends on why.
2006-09-29 09:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by MizModelMaterial 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, I never want her to cry, let alone make her do so, but if I am pushed, I am going to stand up for myself. With the lows come the highs. If you haven't got them, it's probably pretty boring.
2006-09-29 09:16:59 · answer #7 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think everybody is going to cry sometimes; nobody is perfect and sometimes your man or girl is gonna hurt your feelings, and make you cry (remember that sometimes you might cry because that's your reaction; it doesn't automatically mean that the other person did anything wrong). you have to be the one to figure out when it has crossed the line and you are truly miserable and they are truly treating you badly.
2006-09-29 09:05:02 · answer #8 · answered by KJC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and women are so different. Just like we do not understand them, they do not understand us. Therefore, both parties will be hurt from time to time. The best part, if he is your true love, is the make up!
2006-09-29 09:07:04 · answer #9 · answered by just me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is VERY true and my fav quote!!! If someone trully cares for you they would not want you to feel any hurt and pain or sadness, let alone that it is caused by them. I am with someone who was like this with me... i was as happy as can be...lately he has made me cry and now I have come to realize he is not the right one and it is time for us to part.
2006-09-29 09:05:08 · answer #10 · answered by 2sweet 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋