He is very nice to me, very outgoing, doesn't stress me out, if I ask him to do smtng for me, he does it, But I dont see him as a partner in bad, I get discusted when i think about it
2006-09-29 08:45:23 · 12 answers · asked by bad person 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just because you think someone is a good person does not mean that you have to be intimate with them. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a man and woman being "just friends". Don't force anything and don't pretend to feel something that you don't because you will regret it later.
2006-09-29 08:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the attraction isn't there, it isn't there. You can't force yourself to "want" the guy just because he's nice. If the thought of being with him disgusts you, that should tell you something. Sounds like he's more like a friend or brother than a boyfriend.
2006-09-29 15:51:57 · answer #2 · answered by pink lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sexual spark is not everything, but is essential. Don't get talked into stringing along this relationship, if the sexual attraction doesn't exist, it will not evolve romantically. You need to be honest with him, cut him loose, and no, you probably won't be able to remain friends with him. He will be hurt, it will be sloppy, and you will feel bad, but its something you have to do. You need feel that sexual spark, its important.
2006-09-29 15:52:52 · answer #3 · answered by RamsGod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds more like a best guyfriend to me, but thats ok, i might be wrong, theres definately a chance that yall are more than that, but you dont always have to have a sexual attraction.
2006-09-29 15:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by yeaa, thats her.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex and don't get his hopes up. Keep it platonic untill you feel things changing
2006-09-29 15:50:09 · answer #5 · answered by pietaune 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him your real feelings about the situation alright!
2006-09-29 15:54:16 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please just leave this man alone, this only spells heartache for the poor, nice, unattractive guy... there's someone for everyone (or so they say) and it's clear you're not each other's 'someone' so just move on
2006-09-29 16:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by ooh baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell em the truth before he gets other ideas.
2006-09-29 15:50:34 · answer #8 · answered by jcs_one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing. Nothing. Why go against your nature?
2006-09-29 15:47:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move onto another guy in which you are sexually attracted to
2006-09-29 15:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋