my bf told me the other night that he got sick of having sex with me all the time. we havent had sex in two weeks and we used too at least twice a week. I feel like i am unattractive to him. am i just crazy?
2006-09-29 08:39:38 · 18 answers · asked by wags8668 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No and no. He just doesn't want to be involved because it wasn't honest in the first place... Maybe he's looking in another direction...cool it..
2006-09-29 08:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. if he isn't having sex with YOU then he is having sex with someone ELSE.
See.. a lot of times guys will only tell you half of what they say.. like this..."I'm sick of having sex with you all the time..." when he should continue and say "... because I'm doing this other chick and she's fantastic in bed and you no longer measure up". But they don't.. they dont want the drama or coming clean.
So... tell him you are sorry that he didn't have as enjoyable a time in bed but you sure enjoyed yourself and you are not going to take what you learned from him out on the road and start dating other guys.
2006-09-29 08:49:02 · answer #2 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just really tired. Some times we get tired of the same kind of sex. Try something new in about a month or when he's ready? use some kind of toy or something? Don't ever think that your unattracted, if anything he's just having a hard time getting to the sex I guess? It's him not you basically
2006-09-29 08:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by Patient NightShade 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is one of the meanest things to say. I don't blame you for feeling that way. You need to tell him exactly what you think. Unless he's getting it somewhere else he'll want sex again soon enough. Then you can show him how it feels to feel unattractive.
2006-09-29 08:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that should really bother you. I have never heard of a guy getting sick of having sex. Are you sure that he is not cheating?
2006-09-29 08:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No girl you are not crazy...but he is. Screw him sounds like he has found someone else who is a little more intresting than you. Thats what men do when they find someone new they start to push you to the side.
2006-09-29 08:43:25 · answer #6 · answered by MizModelMaterial 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's sick of having sex with you, how long before he goes somewhere else? Get rid of him, you are worth more than that
2006-09-29 08:42:48 · answer #7 · answered by bc.grown 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget whether he is cheating.
Sounds like he is just a rude @sshole.
My suggestion, dump him and find someone that will respect you.
DONT find someone then dump him like so many other women.
Just dump him.
2006-09-29 08:45:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no he is probably cheating or maybe his feelings for you changed... why wouldnt he wanna have sex with you if you used to do it all the time? he is an a** hole!
2006-09-29 08:43:14 · answer #9 · answered by its_me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey if you think he doent want to be with you than spice it up a bit make him want you.
2006-09-29 08:47:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋