why is that you spend every waken moment with a guy but he doesn't want a relationship. I'm 31 and have been with this guy for 6 months we practicly live with each other but he doesn't want a relationship
2006-09-29 08:30:28 · 10 answers · asked by missluvsharleys 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He already has you doing everything for him with him with no effort on his part. Of course he doesn't want or need a relationship.
Pull back and see if he expends any effort to even maintain the friendship. If he misses you, maybe he will want more.
2006-09-29 08:33:54 · answer #1 · answered by silligrl357 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he gets into a relationship with you, he'll have to do all the relationship things, such as: Take himself off the market, tell you where he is, stop looking at other women. This man is obviously happy being on the shelf and not ready to give up his freedom just yet. Whilst he's getting all the benefits from you without commiting, he's not gonna change. Dump him, and watch him come back in a fortnight when he realises what he lost and that only a very few women would actually put up with this. He'll be back, don't worry.
2006-09-29 08:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by flumoxed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an old cliche comes to mind " why buy the cow when you are getting the milk for free"? This dude is obviously not interested in the long term commitments so why let him treat you like his personal sex toy only to be put back on the shelf until it is convenient for him?
2006-09-29 08:43:48 · answer #3 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he commit? He is getting everything he wants from you and he can still go out and mess with other women with no guilt. You 31 and you have to ask this question???? It is pretty obvious don't ya think.
2006-09-29 08:35:59 · answer #4 · answered by joelrnic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if he only wants the "benefits" of a relationship without actaully being in one. You should quit wasting your time with him and move on.
2006-09-29 08:32:50 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favour and move on. There is someone out there who will appreciate you for what you are. Stop wasting your precious time on an unappreciative cretin!
2006-09-29 08:40:44 · answer #6 · answered by Scabius Fretful 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he isnt into you and he is using you, so u do things for him? having sex? money? think about it...let me know ok?
good luck
ps: if he is not what you want, don't settle because you think you want him. Think about it ok?
2006-09-29 08:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by lila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then move on and have a life
2006-09-29 08:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by dede 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, he is using you.
2006-09-29 08:40:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
duh he is just using you for sex...........are you sure you are 31.
2006-09-29 08:32:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋