when its one man in your life and another dude that you liked for the longest and you talk to him more than you talk to your real boyfriend what should you do. NEED SERIOUS ANSWERS.
2006-09-29 07:59:46 · 13 answers · asked by "$exie" 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well me and the dude have been friends for almost 5 months now. We spend time 2gether like 4real and me and my bf only talk every once in a while cuz he always be wit his lil home boyz. I think he thinks they are more important than me.
2006-09-29 08:13:28 · update #1
keep the real boyfriend! the other guy is just trying to get something he now cant have (never fails) if you feel in your heart that your bf is the one for u, even just now then dont risk it. if it doesnt work out later on for real reasons then maybe give the other guy a shot (he might not care anymore because your available ) talking to him more than the bf doesnt mean a whole lot, i was in this situation and i kept my man and now we re married, dont talk to the other guy anymore and he has had a gf for a while
2006-09-29 08:04:20 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide what "commitment" means to you.
Remember- the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.
Finding someone to grow old with- is not always the easiest road, but I'm convinced that the right relationship is one where you can both grow as people, and a certain amount of conflict is healthy.
2006-09-29 08:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by Morey000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evaluate your current relationship. Weigh out the good and the bad. If you honestly think you like the guy more then your BF..I'd say go for it. Be honest with your BF though. Don't go into detail..but try to nip it in the bud if you think you're going too far with the other guy. Break it off with the BF if you're gonna go for it also.
2006-09-29 08:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by Rozlyn P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you to stay with your boyfriend.. It may seem the grass is greener the other side... But seriously, do you know his personality, his lifestyle, his behavior yet? It may be a infatuation or a lust.. Even if you breakup with your boyfriend and go out with this guy, what if things are worse than you are with your boyfriend?? It may seem you chnage a diamond to a rock...
2006-09-29 08:05:55 · answer #4 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with your boyfriend he cares more for you than the dude. If the dude really cared, he would have asked you to be his girlfriend long ago.
2006-09-29 08:09:59 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously stay with your boyfriend, it would be alot better if you stayed friends with the other dude, cause who knows maybe you and ur b/f might break up and he'll come running... Don't try to fix a relationship when it's not broken.
2006-09-29 08:01:49 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ღαмαиdα♥ღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do what feels right in you heart... If it where me I would stay with my BF and stop talking to this other guy. Obviously it can cause problems
2006-09-29 08:03:42 · answer #7 · answered by Not Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the man and go straight to the dude if you have more in common.
2006-09-29 08:01:55 · answer #8 · answered by Lone Eagle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how come u see another guy when u are with one. hurt ur bf and go with the other guy, that is how i will put it.
2006-09-29 08:04:23 · answer #9 · answered by diji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to sit down and weigh your pros and cons for each guy,and think about YOURSELF and YOUR happiness first.
2006-09-29 08:03:06 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Bug 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋