2006-09-29 07:59:15 · 5 answers · asked by bowlingcap 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
I'll be honest.. it isn't for everyone. Many people are not strong enough to effectively be a single parent so many months out of the year, and they do not adapt well to living their life via the whims of the Navy.
It's a hard life, but if your relationship is strong, and your spouse sis a strong individual who can stand on their own two feet and be felxible, it is doable. I have been a navay spouse for ten years and I wouldn't change it for the world.
2006-09-29 09:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by Mrsjvb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 26 years USN (I'm still active duty)... I have endured separations including two one year unaccompanied tours, and various cruises... and while yes, the separations are hard... I believe they actually strengthen the marriage.. as we REALLY appreaciate each other. The kids are grown now... and both are responsible young adults with no adverse affects.
Yes, there are sacrifices.. but... They are definitely worth it!!! The Navy has supported my family both financially and thru it's infrastructure... the NAVY IS A FAMILY!!! And that is probably what I will miss the most when they finally make me retire.
2006-09-29 08:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by Jerry D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as a navy wife i can tell you from how i see it. its hard. the ship is out more than its in and as a stay at home mom i spend most nights alone the pay is good and the insurance is great. its very hard having to say good bye to your family all the time
2006-09-29 08:24:14 · answer #3 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sucks. My last 3 years before I retired I only saw my wife and kids about 1 monthy out of 3 years.
2006-09-29 09:30:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a "navy brat" I can tell you I liked it!
2006-09-29 08:06:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋