2006-09-29 07:56:30 · 34 answers · asked by Golfing 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not if the 33 year old has no bad intentions.
You know, this question is interesting. A lot of people have really negative gut responses... but those are relevant to the society in which they were raised. They've been conditioned to believe that it is obscene and terrible.
Frankly, I hate age qualifications. They're so arbitrary. When I was 16, adults would always tell me that I was more like a 25 year old for maturity and such. And that made sense to me, because I liked being with that age group way more than my peers. I had friends in their late 20s and early 30s and it was just so much more comfortable to me because I didn't like the silly impractical drama of high school.
And a lot of 33 year olds are not looking specifically to take advantage when they find a mature person with similar interests. That's such a blanket statement.
But we like the label "pervert" becasue it makes things simpler than looking at each instance specifically.
2006-09-29 08:20:37 · answer #1 · answered by megan_of_the_swamp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a bad thing because she's only 16, if she would be 18 it weren't a problem+ your 33 and you want more things from your girlfriend and it's not sure that this girl will give you what you want. If you like it this way think that you have a 16 years old daughter and she is going out with an 33 years old men, would you like it? (I don't think so) But I could say that if you love her and she loves you, you can still be together, but think that she is only 16. If she decided to be with you... you can continue the relationship.
Love is in the air:-)
2006-09-29 08:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by Eri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Any intimate physical contact they have is statutory, and considered molestation of a minor.
Aside from the legal aspect, these people are at very different stages in their life and it is doubtful they can have a healthy, meaningful romantic connection. The 33 year old is most likely using the teenager for sex, and even if they are geniunely interested in them, the 33 year old is not considering what is healthy or best for the teenager.
Encourage them to break it off immediately.
2006-09-29 08:01:53 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i was 16 and the guy was 39.......but i do think it's wrong and now that i'm older i feel like he took advantage of me,16 and 33 is a big age diffrence. if it's you that is the 33 year's old...please take this to heart..........wait ti'l the 16 year old is 18 or leave them alone. i thought i knew what i was doing when i messed around with a married 39 year old man, i thought it was love,i was wrong;he used me! in every way possible.
2006-09-29 07:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there.
Well i think it is bad cos man/woman shouldn't been dating a 16 years old. i think it would be better if a 33 years old find a man/woman of their own (same age like them).
2006-09-29 07:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if its aproved by the parents maybe not ...........but believe it or not its such a big number between the two of you that can be a problem.....a 16 yr old its not on the same page as a 33 yr old....save urself the headache the parent drama and even problems with the justice after all she is a minor.....enjoy life with people ur age.....im sure theres some1 else for ya!...its all about making ur life more carefree and simply fun filled
2006-09-29 08:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the United States, yes.
2006-09-29 07:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by Muffin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what the people around you think if you like the person your going out with they can get over it. If their actually your friend they'll be happy for you not say "What you couldn't find someone your age?" I hope this is somewhat of a help to you.
2006-09-29 08:22:37 · answer #8 · answered by Justin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes 16 is too young and shame on the 33 yr old!!!!
2006-09-29 07:58:33 · answer #9 · answered by f912guy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
of course, the 33 yr old is a pedophile and a pervert, whether its a female or male
2006-09-29 07:59:27 · answer #10 · answered by goldieluxxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋