2006-09-29 07:47:57 · 26 answers · asked by Elisia Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's okay if you are sure What you do and if you love the person. But if you're not sure don do that important step. Good luck!
2006-09-29 07:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by mimi220 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 20,Lost mine at 17.I was,am,against underage sex,I had many opportunities,but when that time came,I knew I was ready. No matter ur age,it depends on how ready you R. Ask u'rself:Will I regret it;Him;Am I emotionally&mentally ready?Meaning:My reaction on brake-up,he sleeps with another?R u sure u're strong enough?Being a Christian,means to believe&live by u'r morrals!Sex=two souls combineded 4 eternity,nothing can change that.Marriage=over rated,be sure u love him.I have no regrets I'm willing to live with consecquinses of my actions.
2006-09-29 09:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by Lynette R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you. I am a Christian, but I have had sex with people and I am not married. I do not believe sex before marriage will send you to Hell or make you a bad person, you make yourself what you are, and only God can judge you. I am a good person, I always have been and I always will, so therefore when my time comes, I know God will forgive me for any sins he knows I have committed.
2006-09-29 07:53:50 · answer #3 · answered by Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's a no brainer.. dont you test drive the car before you buy it. it's important to have sex with the person before you marry him.. for few reasons.. one you will get over the hump.. second you will be able to go into more profound relationship.. and will be able to see beyond just sex after marriage.. otherwise that will be only reaching goal for you for marriage.. and once you will reach the goal.. you both could lose interest in each other.. sex shouldnt be the question for you to get into relation with any person. in order for you to look beyond it. you must go through it.. forget about the religion.. do you think people who dont have sex before marriage dont fall out of marriage.. christian or non christian has nothing do to with it..
2006-09-29 07:59:03 · answer #4 · answered by Badmaash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I planned to wait, but I didn't make it. I lost it before marriage. I was 25.
2016-02-23 16:12:03 · answer #5 · answered by Rebecca 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you hold your beleif strongly then you really ought to stick with it and stay a virgin as your beleif dictates. If your faith isn't strong enough and you have these doubts then speak with your vicar
Personally I don't beleive religion and think sex is fabulous with or without marriage.
2006-09-29 07:51:31 · answer #6 · answered by rchlbsxy2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea its life and look at our lifestyles... today's world is all about sex but dont go give ur stuff to eva one... make sure you juss dont regret it like 80 precent of these girls out there and plus if you want to wait until you get married good for you... thats more props for you becuz i knoe half these girls do not have to will power to do so
2006-09-29 07:58:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a christian and had sex before marriage. I think you have to do what you feel is right. If it doesn't feel right to you then don't do it.
2006-09-29 07:52:00 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm lets say adultery? My goodness does anyone remember that its forbidden?!!!... and sex is not ok before marriage if you know you will marry that person... anything could happen b4 the weeding, you could end up calling it off...
2006-09-29 07:50:37 · answer #9 · answered by lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait. especially if you are a christian. god wants that to be something that is shared between a husband and a wife.
2006-09-29 07:51:02 · answer #10 · answered by Angie B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋