If so,
why does it hurt so bad?
2006-09-29 07:45:25 · 40 answers · asked by kierrascott17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most people wouldn't even know what truly was their first love, because usually the one they really mean is their first infatuation. However if you really mean first love then I'd say no,for most people they really don't,I know that if my first love were to walk in right now and ask me back into her life that I would walk right away from anybody I might be with at the time,it's that simple. Real love never ends,everything else is secondary,just sometimes you don't get what you want.
2006-09-29 07:55:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 24⤊ 1⤋
Getting Over First Love
2016-12-12 16:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you do get over it. However you will never forget it! You will never find another like it! First loves are so pure and full of fun and exciting things because it was your first.
But as time goes on and it will take some time you will be able to look back and smile on some of the stupid things you both did not really knowing what you were doing. You will find true love again and it will be just as exciting and just as much fun except this time you will smile together!
Honey it will hurt for a little while but you have to get back on that horse and keep trying. keep your head up and don't look back!
It's hard to loose your first love but the same feelings will return but with someone much different! You will see!
Wishing you all the Best!
Always Amy
2006-09-29 07:56:38 · answer #3 · answered by heart2heart27958 2 · 16⤊ 0⤋
First loves are incredible. However, they are the hardest to get over. I'm not even sure some people really do. But, it hurts because it is the first. I experienced my first love sixteen years ago and there are times when I still think of him. You just need to give yourself some time. I know that isn't telling you much, but time heals all wounds. It can only get better. If you remember those two things, you will come through this okay.
2006-09-29 07:49:57 · answer #4 · answered by blackwidow 3 · 8⤊ 1⤋
If course you do. People who spend the rest of their lives pining after their first loves are pathetic.
People always say, "You never get over your first love." Of course you do, because you find someone who is more important and special, someone who encompasses EVERYTHING you wish everyone from your past would have been. Don't listen to people who say you never find a love like the first, because you find BETTER ones... more deep.
You will always look back at the memories with fondness, but really, don't we look back at EVERY relationship we've had and smile at the good memories. This doesn't mean you still love them or you want them back, it just means that they were good memories.
Really, people over-romanticizing this first love crap is going to ruin so many people by making them believe it is the most important relationship in their lives, and its NOT! No, you don't spend the rest of your life pining after one person.... people who do are just missing out and want to live in the past, especially when those relationships happen in high-school.
I hate people who say "any love after the first is just a placeholder because I can't have so and so." Then why are you in a relationship? If you can't move on from the first love, why have a second? Why be in a relationship if you can't give your entire heart to somebody? We wonder why marriages don't last, because we live in a world of people crying over the first person they dated. Ugh, people who can't move on have NO business being in a relationship and they don't understand that there is better love out there. Ugh.
Please, don't use someone else because you can't be with your first love. Its sad.
2014-05-21 08:23:23 · answer #5 · answered by Cayden 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2015-08-05 22:35:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-29 07:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never really get over your first love, im 21 and my first love was when i was 16 and to this day i still think about the good times and wish things would have went differently but u just have to remember there are so many diff kinds of girls out there for you so just keep looking and stay on top of your game
2006-09-29 07:48:20 · answer #8 · answered by big_deezy 2 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Depends how they treated you and how the relationship ended. If it was a sweet first love you may move on to but I don t think you ll ever stop wondering what could ve been. They will always be special to you.
2015-11-18 03:55:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say that I am over my first love, but deep down I still love him and would do just about anything for him. It hurts to know that they have moved on or that you are moving on. Dont let it get you down. you will find someone else to love!
2006-09-29 07:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by elliemae 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋