I have been talkin to one of my dads friends he lives with us and my dad told me that he doesnt want us to hang out like that to just be friends well i tryed but it got temping so we started to go behind my dads back and started to make out and stuff well anyways my dad caught me once with him but we was just kissing so he told me that he'll let it slide just this once but if it happens again we are out of his house .Anyways i left to go to houston to visit and to give my dad space ive been gone for 2 weeks and My dads friend called me and told me that when i get back we cant be doing this anymore i told him i understand but its hurts a little i need advice on how to just be friends with him and not want more?
2006-09-29 07:24:17 · 14 answers · asked by Heaven <3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you?
How old is he?
You might need to call the LAW
I have serious doubts about a father that lets his daughter make out with one of his friends.
Good Luck!
2006-09-29 07:29:27 · answer #1 · answered by C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was a friend of your Dad's he wouldn't be trying to get into your pants . You on the other hand like the attention and think it is alright . Have you ever gave much thought to why his friend let you both move in ? Now you feel like you have something for this guy and your wrong. All you have is lack of respect for yourself and not being mature enough to see when your being used . If your under age , It is a Crime on his part to even go as far as he did with you. You really need to just have your dad and you move out. I would never ever put my Daughters in a situation like that....
2006-09-29 14:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by marshoberg55 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Ok.... sparky I am assuming you are 21? Your dads friend is?? If you are of age and you still live with your father than your dad has every right to tell you what can and can not happen under his roof. However, If you move out and the 2 of you want to continue to see each other that should be your decision. I myself would not recommend it. I look up to my father and I would never want to damage the relationship we have nor one that he has with a friend.
Evidently his friend is thinking the same way that is why he is saying things have to stop here.
Do yourself a favor and find someone closer to your age you will find you have much more in common than just your father....
2006-09-29 14:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know that it hurts your dad when you do that. You messed up and he let it slide so take it. Know that your dads love and friendship is worth much more than some other fling you maybe experiancing and involve yourself with other means of entertainment when you go home.
2006-09-29 14:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by Jeremy R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do this with someone of your age and keep the memory of you Dad's friend as an experience.
2006-09-29 14:28:56 · answer #5 · answered by krishnendu c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you have to be strong for you and your dad sake.I know it can be really hard trying to stay away from someome that you are very intament with.If you both can move togeather than that's good because you can run your own life.
2006-09-29 14:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by Shalla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only hang out with him when your dad is around.
2006-09-29 14:27:05 · answer #7 · answered by Stuck in the Middle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to focus on the feelings of this guy. He has told you that it cannot continue, you need to respect that. It's ok if you still have thoughts of him, just don't act on them.
2006-09-29 14:27:53 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go about your day normally and act as if his one of the guys.
2006-09-29 14:26:58 · answer #9 · answered by Not Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard but if i were u i would try to stay away for awhile till ya feelings calm down.find a new friend
2006-09-29 14:27:00 · answer #10 · answered by SINISTER MEMPHISTO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋