i still love him,we were together for 1 1/2 years.
2006-09-29 07:20:49 · 19 answers · asked by marsha w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honestly, it's best that you do what's best for you, and that is obviously to move on. fill your time up with other activities, go to the gym or join a community sports team or church group or something/ Let him go.
Think of it like this. What if that was your child? would you want him to desert your child for a former girlfriend? or would you want him to learn commitment and to be dependable? You don't want to be the reason he bails on his child.
and finally, you should show yourself more self-respect to go after someone that has obviously chosen someone else. you as a person deserve better.
2006-09-29 07:27:17 · answer #1 · answered by smartkid37138 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it is I think you just need to move on. Since he has a child with this other woman, you need to keep your distance, let them try and be happy and be a family. This is one of those things where you have to put a childs best intrests before your own.
Now if they down the road break up then you can try and work things out with him if you are still intrested, but for now let him consintrate on his new family and taking care of his child.
2006-09-29 07:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by Icara4ewu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know the whole story but you need to move on because he has. he's started a family and thats what you will ruin if you try to interfere. even if he's showing signs that he wants to get back with you, i doubt that she and the baby is going anywhere. find someone else and move along.
2006-09-29 07:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Marsha, I think him having a baby and girlfriend is telling you what to do!!! Where's alot more men out there,this one wasn't for you.Don't worry,give it time you will find mr.right.
Clowmy
2006-09-29 07:40:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think of his baby. You wouldn't want to ruin his family....Better stay out of his life and find another bf who will offer the same love and affection.
2006-09-29 07:24:03 · answer #5 · answered by Λиδѓεy™ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to find someone else that makes you happy, it wont happen right away u need to give it time, even though it seems like u will never find it again but u will!
2006-09-29 07:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by kaurie_lynn29 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-03 16:07:57 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up. U'll only feel bad if he already has a baby.
2006-09-29 07:23:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on girlfriend,,,,I don't think he'll leave his girlfriend or his baby ,,,find someone that has better interest in you...
2006-09-29 07:24:32 · answer #9 · answered by guess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he has a girl and a baby its best that you juss move on obviously he truly wasnt the one for you...
2006-09-29 07:22:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋