all we do is kiss and cuddle. i want to make a move that leads to makeing love how do i make a move for that he doesnt make moves i do
2006-09-29 07:03:16 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ambush bj.
2006-09-29 07:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by dirftwood22 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Well when you are kissing and cuddling just start touching other places on his body, you hadn't touched before. The low waste on his side, the top of his jeans, his chest, just go for it and put a little more umph in your kissing when you are doing this. He is sure to get the hint if he doesn't just start unbuttoning his jeans. He will find it to hard to resist.
2006-09-29 07:10:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Molly,
If the time is right it will happen all on it's own..... Be fore warned ...if he's ... well alittle inexperienced he will be worried about following the Boy Scout manual for sexual contact......
It's simple .. but in a panic can be confusing for a first timmer !!
In - out, in - out , in - out , repeat if needed!
if he is that young and you push the issue he may drop to his knees and scream thank Gawd !! However he may get the impression your a bit .... easy ... shall we say...
It's your relationship ... time never killed a "wait on sex" issue unless it wasn't meant to be in the first place.
Don't push and make it a special event not a contest to see who can finish first .... he will win that one !
2006-09-29 07:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by John 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What ever you do, do not come of to bold. Because most guys like the shy, sweet, girls. The move that will work best is simply sitting on his lap looking into his eyes. When you sit if you feel a hardness in his pants that's a sign he is turned on, and then you can get passionate.
2006-09-29 07:10:45 · answer #4 · answered by Mysique_X 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You make the move, because it shows you are ready for the next step.
I think you take hinm to a light lunch somewhere , perhaps a Togos or a Quiznos. You then have the conversation.
"You know, Todd, we've been together for a month and I find you exciting to be around. I feel secure in our relationship that I am ready for the next step, which would be [here you insert whatever term you want to indicate that you want sex with him]. Are your ready for it?"
His answers determines the next step.
2006-09-29 07:06:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You don't say how old you are? As long as you're ready for it, talk to him and suggest it. tell him you don't want him to feel pressurised into it, but suggest a time and a place, and make sure it's special for both of you. Remember, if you're not ready, you can always say no at any point.
2006-09-29 07:11:27 · answer #6 · answered by lizie159 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start with the normal stuff and then start to feel on him below the belt while your kissing him (undo his pants and slip your hand on "it") that should let him know your ready or you could just talk to him before hand and tell him you are ready to go further and I was wondering if you were even old enough to be doing that.???
2006-09-29 07:12:44 · answer #7 · answered by Charmed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go girl since ur ready for the act grab him ok
2006-09-29 07:12:21 · answer #8 · answered by baby 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
put on soft music,candle light,and an fire a bottle of wine and let the rest go on it`s own.you will see.just thinking this makes me in the mood. have fun,go slow.love takes time,sex is 10 min.
2006-09-29 07:07:31 · answer #9 · answered by horseknickers 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just go talk to him i bet he will want to, so be straight forward and have fun with it. it will al be good, he shouldnt care if u want to go further i bet he is waiting for u! To say it!
2006-09-29 07:09:07 · answer #10 · answered by kaurie_lynn29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
During a really wet long kiss, run you hand up the inside of his thigh and over his crotch and then keep rubbing his crotch....that should do it.
2006-09-29 07:06:06 · answer #11 · answered by RT 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋