do you think it would be best to play your child's video when you want to hear their voice, or would healing be better if you just let it take its course without the video.
2006-09-29 06:57:51 · 12 answers · asked by Cutie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i lost a child 3 years ago , didnt have a video so just have to remember him what i'd give to hear his voice again, heartbroken mum
2006-09-29 07:06:00 · answer #1 · answered by simone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a question only you can answer for yourself…
Dealing with the loss of a child is something that people deal with in many different ways…
What works for some… doesn’t for others.
Play the video… if it hurts too much… don’t play it again !!!
Check out the following web link where you can download some excellent Bereavement Resources that help families recover from the loss of an infant or child…
http://www.sidsandkids.org/publications.html
2006-09-29 13:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone heals differently. Some people need to remind themselves of the good times and some people deal better by putting things away. Whatever is the best for the person dealing with the loss.
2006-09-29 14:00:54 · answer #3 · answered by smile4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly that is a hard question. I have lost few people but a child would be the worst thing. I am sorry for your loss!!! I think you may be better off not listening to the video. You will most definatley remeber your child in your heart. That is something you will never forget!!
2006-09-29 14:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by Tinkerbelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't think of a greater loss and if this question is in reference to your personal experience, I am deeply sorry.
I don't know if watching the video would help or hinder the process. I would say if watching it is something you need to cope with the pain, then watch it. Prayerfully, although you will never forget, the memories will become less painful over time.
2006-09-29 14:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by hutmikttmuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your pain,I am sorry about your loss.To answer your question I feel that its good to hear & see the video it will help you heal.and on the video you will see the love and it will help you remember the wonderful time you had together.My mom told me that its better to have loved than to not know the love at all.keep the memorie alive.
2006-09-29 14:03:59 · answer #6 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and far most I would like to say i am very sorry and Please send my condolences to you and your family.....Secondly I would like to say do whatever helps you ease the pain in your heart, even if you choose to talk to him every day that would be ok also, a video is a good way of remembering the good times, it also helps to cry as much as you can. God Bless :) U r in my prayers.
2006-09-29 14:07:18 · answer #7 · answered by lildemon78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what your heart tells you to do! Time heals all wounds! Everyone goes through the grieving period differently!
2006-09-29 14:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play the video as many times as you like, noone expects you to forget and either way time is the only healer.
2006-09-29 13:59:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when your heart have been broken it hard to said when or how long you should grieve your lost hope your heart mend soon and i am sorry for your lost.... just remember the child is with our lord he or she is OK looking down on you with a smile
2006-09-29 14:17:57 · answer #10 · answered by Summer G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋