2006-09-29 06:37:40 · 17 answers · asked by amitty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he left you was for a reason. He is not that into you anymore. He either found someone else that would satisfy his daily needs such as pleasure. If I were you I would try to find someone else and move on with your life. If you were with him for 4 years and he did not commit to you even if you actually get back out with him he doesnt know the word commitment you do not break up or leave someone after 4 years if you are fully committed to them or if you love them genuienly
2006-09-29 06:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by Beautiful Me! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this to you but if a guy breaks up with you its cus there are feelings that are inside him that will stay there forever
you need to move on if he dumped you that means he doesn't love the great person you are
i know its hard i was dating a man for almost 3 years and he upped and left
i later found out that he stayed with me so ling cus he didn't want to be alone
i dont deserve that and neither do you there are better men out there
i found a man that love me for me and he treats me great. he thinks of me as a goddess and i love him so much
there are better things out there for you just try it it will work and you will be happier
2006-09-29 14:03:13 · answer #2 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the answerers are going to tell you to move on. I am going to tell you that to want the dude back is irrational, not anything a woman who values herself would want. It is not rational to want to get him back.
Unfortunately, men often do "come back" but only because some other woman rejected them and they need the former squeeze to fill in the "doing" time while they look around. Get a grip, woman, don't trash yourself like this. The next guy ain't gonna come along if you have a hurt puppy look on your face. These are life experiences and they are good because we get stronger and wiser and get something better/best next time. Look to tomorrow. Today will be yesterday in a few hours. Good luck, sweetie.
2006-09-29 13:43:16 · answer #3 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he left you there was a reason. I was going out with my ex for three years and he left me right before our three year anniversary. He was seeing someone else. I tried to get him back but it only made me look like a fool. He made up his mind. My suggestion is to try to move on. It will be hard but you will be able to do it. It took me a couple of months but I found someone else also. My current boyfriend and I have just celebrated our three year and we are going strong with talk of marriage. Just be strong and someone better will come along :)
2006-09-29 13:42:50 · answer #4 · answered by LadyD1019 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the bigger/more important questions are:
does he deserve to have you? Is he good to you?
Does he treat you with respect while respecting you as an individual, without trying to change who you are?
and then, there's
"why did he leave"? and
"if he did it once, don't you think he would do it again?
And
don't you deserve better.
Now, very seriously, if you can answer those questions truthfully and still want him back, then
I would write him a sincere letter, stating how you feel, aknowledging to him that you have thought of all of the above in regard to honesty and respect and indivuality in the relationship and still want things to work out for the 2 of you.
best of luck to you.
2006-09-29 13:45:34 · answer #5 · answered by smartkid37138 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he left you, then go away. Do you really want to be the psycho-stalker "One who wouldn't go away"?
He broke it off with you for a reason. Probably because you're needy and desperate. Maybe your dependency annoys him.
Move on. Get your own life. Improve your life without him in it. Let him become someone else's problem to deal with.
2006-09-29 13:46:09 · answer #6 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really want him back go over to his house, and just talk to him and find out why he left you and what it would take to get him back.
2006-09-29 13:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by The Aabenator 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't force someone to love you!! Move on and Find a new guy!! There is plenty of stars in the sky, so open your eyes and wipe your tears!!!
2006-09-29 13:41:11 · answer #8 · answered by Tony I 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him space. thats means dont call him write him or anyhting like that. Why did you break up? maybe he felt trapped. i know it hurts and its hard, but the best thing for you is to let him go.
2006-09-29 13:44:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd start by learning to speak English properly.
2006-09-29 13:40:49 · answer #10 · answered by Sheik Yerbouti 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋