It hasn't been super longs since me and my current boyfriend dated, but he isn't keeping in touch with me like how he first was. I barely knew him start off. I want to break up but I know all my friends, esspecially my closest will get pis-sed if I dump him. What do I do?
2006-09-29 06:31:30 · 5 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're the one that was in the relationship--not your friends. Therefore, it's your decision to end it--not theirs. Just as long as you go about things in a mature, civilized manner there shouldn't be a problem with him or your friends. People can break up amicably. And if people get "pis-sed" off, that's their problem--not yours.
2006-09-29 06:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by Angela B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why would you be with someone you barely know and second of all if they are your closest friends like you say they are then they will understand. But do what you want to do and quit worrying about what everone else is thinking. If they get mad at you they really arent your friends but next time be more mature to actually date someone you do know a bit better.
2006-09-29 06:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't date someone because other people like them or not...you date them because YOU like them...if you stop dating him, that doesn't mean those people can't still be friends with him...
If it's not working for you, then do both of you a favor and end it (as gently as possible)...why should either of you waste time together when at least one of you isn't diggin' it? If you go your separate ways, then at least you'll both have the opportunity to meet someone who WILL dig you and be happy with you (and vice versa).
Live your life for you...not for others...
2006-09-29 06:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either stay with him to please everyone else, or find a new boyfriend and tell your friends to get over it.
Or, talk to your current boyfriend about the issues you have and see if they can be resolved.
2006-09-29 06:32:42 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya break up the same way you break up if he isnt friends with your friends.
2006-09-29 06:39:34 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋