2006-09-29 06:24:35 · 50 answers · asked by chica™ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh yea and i don't like strippers so i don't want to join.
2006-09-29 06:27:29 · update #1
No UNLESS he is alone when he goes to see one OR you two agreed on such -- he don't see/allow you going out for strippers with your girlfriends nor should he with his.
Most of the guys I know goes to strip bars once in a while with their guy friends, even if they are committed. Now that I'm married, my husband approves of me joining my friend's bridal showers to see a naked guy dancing. He's secured and knows his place in my life even if he foresees I'd be seeing someone else's balls. It's just a guy/girl thing for ENTERTAINMENT purposes. You just really need to trust him when he tells you and/or asks for your permission. If you don't want him to, just tell him how you feel and what are the possible consequences in the relationship if he still intends to do so.
Watching someone's naked body with friends is somehow still clean fun but doing something else in that body definitely already crosses the line. He should know his limitations and that's where respect comes in. And if he does the other way around, right there and then, break up with him. He'll be just too weak to handle temptations what more a mature relationship.
2006-09-29 06:35:01 · answer #1 · answered by kamahalan_12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's going to clubs to see strippers, it may not be a woman's favorite thing, but can be okay. As long as he's just looking and not touching. Sometimes men want to feel sexy by others so they go to a strip joint because they like the attention they receive from strippers. But, if it becomes an obsession, or sees a stripper outside of the bar, it's time to call it quits.
2006-09-29 06:28:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't you want a bunch of beautfull naked busty woman all over your man. I am so sure none of the strippers could compete with your body. After all you show a great amount of confidence. We ( the strippers) should be the ones hating not you. Why don't you work an extra job and give him all of your money and tell him to have a good time on you. As a extra bonus blow him before he leaves the house. Quit sweating us strippers. We could care less about the extra ordinary regular men that visit our clubs. You just keep on signing my paycheck.
2006-10-02 18:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by LadyRedWild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you? Apparently there's not much of a relationship there, if him going to see a stripper can end the relationship. It's silly for a woman to think she's going to be the "be all/end all" for her guy for the rest of their lives...he's a human male...humans are visual creatures, and the males even moreso than the females...if he wants to see a stripper, where's the harm in that?
Why does this bother you? If you wanted to go see a male strip show, you should be able to do so...what's the big deal?
2006-09-29 06:28:41 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't see why,do you think it would be right if you went to see a male stripper and he split from you?Not unless he is goin to see a stripper on his own with a long mac on and a dirty grin on his face,then you can dump him but if he's with the guys,why not?Maybe he'll come home to you that night feeling frisky,take advantage of it!
2006-09-29 06:29:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to lighten up a little. Going to a strip club is a right of passage for most guys. I would say 99% of the time the trips are innocent fun that guys have. Its going to happen, so the question becomes do you want him to lie to you and go anyway or do you want to know that he is going so that you can be ready for him when he comes home to you?
I had a few girlfriends in the past that even went with me. They were curious to see what went on at one of these places.
2006-09-29 06:51:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a boyfriend, not a husband. You know now that he likes to see strippers and you should know that he will not "change." You are either comfortable with his voyerism - and you can go with him, you know - or you are not. It is either a deal breaker or it isn't. If you plan to marry this guy or continue to shack up with him, understand that this will be a part of the relationship until death do you part.
2006-09-29 06:28:02 · answer #7 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He surely cheated. What an fool. do not enable this jerk convey you down. carry your head up extreme, and teach him which you're able to do wonderful without him. it rather is a sturdy element which you found out approximately him now, rather after yo have been married. he will discover that the stripper will cheat on him. Then he would be working back to you. To little to previous due. There are a hundred adult men at your door waiting for you. solid adult men. do not supply up on us.
2016-10-15 08:32:44 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK no!!!! You are being WAY to insecure about this...Break up over him going to a strip club?? Come on..thats really petty... I am sorry....If you don't trust the guy then it goes far beyond him going to strip clubs..Now if that is the case that you dont trust him, then you shouldn't be with him in the first place..
Also I saw a response that seemed really freakin lame....
"Yes!! You should be his one and only"...
Oh My God!! Dude, are you tryin to get with this girl??? haha... The guy went to a strip club which is perfectly normal for ALL men, he didnt go take another women out on a date..
2006-09-29 06:43:11 · answer #9 · answered by leog7one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you would want to break up over him seeing strippers then explain to him how strongly against it you are. If he can't accept that and still goes you don't need him!
2006-09-29 06:27:12 · answer #10 · answered by Shannon B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋