Describe(shortly,just the main things) a moment from your child's life when he/she was misbehaving and you did something to get the behavior better and help your child become confident, disciplined,etc without ashameing or critisizing him/her(which means you have treatened your child kindly,with respect,firmly and with sequence?
2006-09-29 06:18:32 · 6 answers · asked by No N 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I remember the last time.My 5-year-old daughter Emma was playing in her room with a doll.It was time for bed and I came in the room and told her "Sweatheart,it's time for bed.Put the doll in the closet and get in your pyjamas".She kept playing without listening to me.I waited half a minute to see if she was going to listen and then went to her,hold her hand kingly and firmly and made her stand up.She began mumbling but I didn't get a notice and just asked smiling "Would you like to pick the fairy tale,or I will pick it?".She answered sulky "I will pick it".I said "OK,go to the bathroom to wash your teeth and go to bed.When you are ready,call me,and I'll read you the book until 21:00.If you are too late,there won't be enough time for reading." That's how my daughter knew I respect her and respect myself either.After the fairy tale,I told her "You forgot to put the doll in the closet.If you want,put it there in the morning.If not,I'll put it on the shelf." We have already decided(together) that if Emma don't put her toys in the closet,I take them and put them on a high shelf.She has to prove me(during 2-3 days) that she can take care of her toys.Then I return the toys I've taken.
2006-09-29 06:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 00:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever form of discipline we use in our house is always accompanied with other factors. We also talk with our sons and explain the behavior, why it is wrong and how it makes us feel. We ask them how they feel when they get in trouble and if they would like to be in our situation. Then we discipline them and pray with them. We always make sure to hug them and tell them that we are disciplining them because we love them.
2006-09-29 06:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My daughter, for a time, was exerting her authority on our 2 dogs. She would yell at them for no reason, and even hit them. She just wanted to be the boss of somebody, and she knows she's not gonna be the boss of me and get away with it! We put her in time out every time she did this. We would also talk to her about having to be nice to them or they would not be nice to her anymore. This wasn't true, my dogs didn't really care, but she didn't know that. We also sat her down and taught her the commands that we use with the dogs do get them to mind and/or do tricks without yelling at them. We also told her that if she could not be nice to the dogs, we would find them another home with children who would be nice to them because it wasn't fair to the dogs to get yelled at and hit all the time. After this thought, she turned it around. She now uses the commands that we taught her, and the dogs listen to her better than they do me! They now sleep in her room, one on each side of the bed, and follow her everywhere she goes. She feels like a big grown up now that they listen to her and protect her. I know with certainty that these dogs would lay down their lives to save hers and I am so proud of them all.
2006-09-29 06:31:17 · answer #4 · answered by glitz_and_glitter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my son is a good kid but what works for him is going to his room and laying on the bed till he calms down or if he will get worst he can write his abc
2006-09-29 06:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by weeksfamilyof4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my son is very agitated. so whenever he crosses the line i tell him to stand in a corner. it really works.he stands for half n hour or so. after that i talk to him about his conduct and he understands. this works like a charm.
2006-09-29 06:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by atahsina 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋