my bf is rushing things in our relashionship.
2006-09-29 06:17:03 · 22 answers · asked by georgia babe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't let him push you into something you're not ready for. If he won't stop trying to rush things, I would move on and break things off. Tell him that you don't want to go that far or that fast and if he does and won't slow down that he better find someone else. If you're not ready then that is the answer and that's it; if he can't accept that and slow down then he doesn't really love you he only wants one thing and you don't want to have to feel used for that later on.
2006-09-29 06:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by jennnnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I myself would BACK DOWN and SLOW DOWN IMMEDIATELY! Go at your own comfortable pace or tell him to move on! This has happened to me before, and I spent almost 5 years in what turned out to be a horrible relationship as a result. He is rushing because he wants control. He may seem sweet now, but once he has you, things may change. He is needing you for some reason rather than wanting to check things out and see if it feels right and mutual between you. Once he has you, he will try to mold you into exactly what he wants, which may not be what you want for yourself. Be careful and aware.
2006-09-29 06:22:24 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to slow down if he really love you he will and if he don't he look for one thing or the other to break up with you so he could have the chance to do what he want to that you've being misstepping him for so long. Let him know that you are not in hurry and if he really love you he should hold up still the you are ready for what he want. Simple as ABC.
2006-09-29 06:23:20 · answer #3 · answered by tomapepe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up. Move on. If he is rushing things, believe me, he will somehow get you in a situation where it will be impossible to break up, because it will make you feel so evil just to think about it. RUN!
Unless its just because of sex, then I agree with the guy that said: put ot.
2006-09-29 06:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to put the relationship on hold or terminate it if this is the case. His goals are differing from your own obviously right now and you'll regret it if you give in.
The fact that you express distress at this proves that the relationship needs to be reevaluated by both people involved.
2006-09-29 06:19:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all he is ur bf..so I guess you two do like each other lot..in that case honestly is the best...tell him u need time...if he loves you dearly he will respect...if not..it really should be his loss
Remember...the person you waits for something good....patience..is the key word.
2006-09-29 06:19:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends if its sex tell him 2 go else where and if he does do i need say more but if its him wanting u to be just his then u have a problem because that means he has something else on the side and he wants to see if u want what he wants, be very careful with what u do.
2006-09-29 06:21:11 · answer #7 · answered by q45dip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you're not ready to rush things, and that you want to take it slow. If he wants to be with you, then he'll understand!
2006-09-29 06:19:08 · answer #8 · answered by marypaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop acting like your all innocent and let him have it - before you end up puding him away and getting trapped in a vicous circle of giving guys blue balls and driving them away. Cuase you'll end up alone living with 4 cats.
2006-09-29 06:21:47 · answer #9 · answered by 10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him its better 2 take things slow! its like dacnin on a boy the slower the better!
2006-09-29 06:32:56 · answer #10 · answered by lil' gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋