Why do you just have one hole to go to the bathroom? He said it's weird because boys have 2 different places. Then he said the cat did too. Do I just leave it alone or explain it to him? Not sure how far to explain...he is 7...Any idea's...I would be thankful!
2006-09-29 06:09:54 · 16 answers · asked by LeeLynn 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
He needs to have it explained in a simple and easy manner. Go to one of the web sites and download a simple black and white outline diagram of the female pelvis and explain that women have a urethra or pee hole, a vagina or birth tube, and an anus for defecating. Also explain to him at his time that his hole for urinating has a second function and a special fluid for making babies also come out of it during sex. which you will explain more later. At age 7 keep em talking about sex and their body and get as much good information to them as possible answered as easily as possible. At age 13 they will develop their modesty and all questions will stop. So now is the time when appropriate to talk about sex, masturbation, erections and how to deal with them, privacy, not letting anyone see him naked but for family and doctor, how to react to inappropriate touching. Good luck and God Bless.
2006-09-29 06:18:56 · answer #1 · answered by Geo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have many books I use for children when it comes to tough questions and for that particular problem I would recommend "The Bird, The Bees, and The Berenstain Bears". The book even has a fun craft activity in the end that would help. I have also used for personal reading, "Kids Ask About Sex: Honest Answers for Every Age" by Melissa Cox and some medical institute was great because I know how to answer the questions appropiately without giving too little or too much information.
2006-09-29 06:20:49 · answer #2 · answered by still_happy2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell him the truth. He's too old to be lied to. Just answer exactly the question that he asks...go no further unless he asks for clarification. He won't ask a question that he isn't ready to hear the answer to. Tell him that girls DO have 2 holes, just like boys...then you can explain why if you want. The body sorts out our food and drink into two different tunnels. Telling him why we have two holes might preoccupy his curiosity for a while. lol
2006-09-29 06:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by Wicked Chicken! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly why is your 7 year old in the bathroom with you when you are using the toilet??? He should be taught right from the start that this is a private time and not a social event. Then you can explain to him that girls and boys are different and you do have two holes yours are just in different places than his. And animals are different from humans and he could get hurt going around checking animals to see how many holes they have.
2006-09-29 06:15:44 · answer #4 · answered by Scooter Girl 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
The dog is confused. This is what a dog who isn't sure if the bed is his sleeping place or not does and it's a territorial thing, too. The very best cure is prevention. Make sure he has a nice bed of his own and keep him permanently out of your bedroom. Shut the door every time or place a baby gate in the doorway. It takes some getting used to but it really is a small price to pay to keep the dog as well as to keep your bed and yourselves from being peed on.
2016-03-26 22:47:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can ask him where he heard that and tactfully tell him everyone has 2 and leave it at that and in time if he asks again you can give a few more details but always be open , honest and available build a trusting rlationship speak calmly and dont get overly excited at the questions with so much info out there aimed at kids from tv to school to friends curiosity is bound to happen just makes ure he hears the truth best wishes Gorbalizer
2006-09-29 06:18:31 · answer #6 · answered by gorbalizer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your kid, whats what. We have a three year old daughter (picture is on 360 page) who knows that she has eggs in her tummy, how babies are made, and where they come out of. Of course this has caused some bruised egos at school when parents tell their kids lies because they are uncomfortable with he question, but the only thing i ever ask them is "So you want me to evade the question or lie to her to help your kid adjust?" They never say a word after that. Tell them the truth, it will make you an honest parent.
2006-09-29 06:15:01 · answer #7 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him know everyone has two holes, but boys and girls have different kinds. And if he furthers it it might be time for the short and sweet version of the baby talk.
2006-09-29 06:12:48 · answer #8 · answered by The Invisible Woman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him girls have two different places too. I think he is curious and if u dont help him to understand then he will explore with other children .... You need to let him know girls have two the same...
He is 7 so he is smart enough to already know I think he is probably just looking for reassurance on the matter... it is important u talk to him about this..asap
2006-09-29 06:13:03 · answer #9 · answered by Christal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that truth is always best. It doesn´t matter how long you´ll be discussing this with your children. It has to be done. I have found that the least contradictive info you give children, the best. Even if they don´t fully understand now, whatever they´ll cross reference later will not contradict what you´ve told them. It reinforces the trust bond that you have with them and most importantly, dedramatize sensitive subjects.
2006-09-29 06:16:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋