i kiss own sister?

Question

i've kisssed my sister on the lips and in the chest with my tongue when i was about 13 yrs old. She is 3 yrs younger than me. I did it 6 or 7 times. We watched it on the t.v .Now I’m 16. At that time we didn't know that what we were doing was wrong, nobody ever told us that brothers and sisters don't do this and now i realized that it was a very big mistake. By the way my sister and i are very good children. We always obey our parents, do lots of prayers and we never drink or smoke. And now, i feel a bit different from others and also guilty. she still considers me as her brother but i feel like i'm not his brother anymore. Since i've realized my mistakes, I don’t want to look at other girls. there are lots of questions which come into my head and i cannot concentrate on my studies. on top of that i've exams in 3 weeks. I consider me like a criminal. Sometimes suicide came into my head. please give me good advice

Answer 1

u dont actually need to talk to anyone about this, now that u have realised that it was a mistake i am sure u would not repeat it again. Just dont think about it, and behave normally with your sister dont bring any kinda ill feeling in your heart.
U are sincere and this is a bad phase that will go sooner

Answer 2

Oh dear, what you did was wrong but it is not your fault, you were not given the correct information and you did whatever you saw on TV so dont feel guilty but remember always incomplete knowledge is always more dangerous than no knowlwdge so dont hesitate to ask what you need to know, talk to parents about evrything and if they hesitate, then talk to elders in the family but do not rely on magazines and TV alone. what you did was because of the biological changes taking place in your body but now when you have grown up a little, you are capable of controlling them better than you did then. this is not uncommon and it is good you realised it was wrong before things got out of hand so just forget about it and also talk to your sister, maybe she is also going through guilt making things difficult for both of you. and just move on dear, dont ever think of suicide, think of your parents asnd loved ones, how will they live without you. dont worry so much and try concentrating on your studies and you will soon get over it. talk to your sister, she also needs to know what you did was wrong and you are sorry for that and now pick up your books and study hard.

Answer 3

hey man it is not important at all don't worry dear it is not only u that did this u were child and u didn't know what it means children are fool and everybody know be sure that God loves u coz of ur prays and ur right way that u don't drink or smoke u know?the people are allow to make mistake if u knew everything from the frst why u go to schoo and y ur parents should learn u things these stuffs are coz a peron a human is mistakable don't wory at all God is so kind just want him to forgive u be sure that he will coz he loves his creatures take care and bye
and if u believe in God know that suicide is a big sin soooooo big sin so don't make God sad

Answer 4

Sit down with your sister and tell her how you didn't know it was wrong and that you are sorry for it and that you will never do it again and you will always behave as a brother to her. You were young, you made a mistake, and now you need to forgive yourself for making the mistake and move on. You are not a bad person, you just didn't know- you can't be blamed for that. Peace dude.

Answer 5

Son, your being way to hard on yourself ok. You were young and made a mistake, life is like that ok. You haven't done it since have you? It's a bit kinky that you taped it and watched it on tv. Do you still watch it? If so, then get rid of the tape. And start looking for a girl friend. Say your prayers and ask for forgiveness, all will be ok.

Answer 6

Wen kids watch tv, they all try out whats being shown.
Everybody makes mistakes but only a few accept it and feel sincerely guilty. wht u did was jus n innocent mistake n u must serioulsy b out of ur mind to suicide over dat! if u sis forgot then u shud to!

4get da past n move on...there r many ppl worse off than u r n have a betta reason to suicide.

Answer 7

My dear there is no problem. You did it when you were not aware of the same. Don't worry....Now you have realised and forget the past....Be a good brother and good son to your parents. The more you think of that incidents the more you will feel guilty so now you have disclosed to the world and your heart is empty...Feel better and behave nicely in your future. BEST OF LUCK

Answer 8

Talk to your parents about this situation. Do not think sudicide at all. What you done was wrong but you are not to blame cause you did not know better. You have learned from your mistakes and should put this behind you. Talk to your parents about some counseling or do it on your own. Admit to your sister as well that what the two of you done was wrong in case she may have some mixed feelings.

Answer 9

do not feel guilty at all. it is common . and we are not aware of it , cos' no one bothers to tell us. it happens with sister ,brother , father ,mother. only that father and mother are informed adults and they keep a check on your innocent sexual energies .

when we enter adolescence , we are just too innocent to know about it. what we do like these are "stupidities", they are not wrongful acts .

sexual energy is there , it doesn't distinguish between who's in the opposite. Only that when you grow big , you understand it better and channelize it through marriage love etc, in which you do not harm others.

just kiss your sister on the cheek one more time with the conviction that she is your little sister. That's it . simple .

Answer 10

Hey, you were a kid! Give yourself a break. You realized it was wrong, and you haven't done it again. That's it, stop feeling guilty. Seriously. Is is really worth all this stress. What is the stress acheiving? Move on with your life. You're not a bad person.