hi im 5 months pregnant and im scared to give birth i dont know what to do if i should get a pain medicine or what and im scared that i might die during childbirth? what are the chances of dieing during childbirth
2006-09-29 05:16:07 · 26 answers · asked by spongebrat_sexychick 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
RELAX.. this is a beautiful time and you should enjoy. The risk is slim to none for dieing. The pain is pain but you can ask for the meds. talk to your Dr. about your concerns though so that he knows
2006-09-29 05:19:09 · answer #1 · answered by bobsdidi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The chances of dying during child birth is slim to none. You are in the hands of skilled doctors. They spend 10 years, at least in school studing exactly how to help birth a child. I would suggest if you are scared, to get the epidural. This will help you very much with pain, and you will only feel slight pressure, when your contractions come. I am 24 and I have two girls, and a boy on the way. The only thing that sucks about the epidural is that you will be stuck in bed intill after the birth. SO if you like to watch t.v. while you wait to give birth, then I highly suggest you get an epidural. I remember watching wheel of fortune during my whole labor. In between each contraction I was able to relax and laugh a little. Then I would feel the pressure ans push again. I for sure will be having the epidural again. It worked great. I could go on and on but I will stop now. Good luck hun.
2006-09-29 05:26:14 · answer #2 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you're feeling.
Before I met my
Now here we are 5 years later, and I'm 9 months pregnant with our first...
The best thing you can do is become an information-a-holic. Do as much research as you can on childbirth. Know the worst case scenario, and the best case scenario. In your case, the worst case scenario is death (that's what you are most worried about). A study done in 2000 shows that less than 1 % of women died due to maternal death.
To help ease some of the worry, join some forums, like babytalk.com, and momclub.com
Don't be afraid to talk about your concerns. But also realize that it's going to happen one way or another...the bun can't stay in the oven forever. Childbirth is very natural, and it's ok to be scared...but it's even more important to understand where the fear comes from, and be equipped with the information we need to conquer our fears.
2006-09-29 05:48:51 · answer #3 · answered by Heart of Plat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are in good health i would not worry about dying during delivery, in regards to the pain medicine, i wouldn't take any unless you discuss it with your doctor or gyno first!! having said that, my doctor said its ok to take tylenol for ne pains, i haven't tho.... Any pains that you might get are most likely normal pains which comes wth being pregnant, it will most likely be your uterus growing to give more room for the baby, it is likely that the ligamets (how ever you spell it) are stretching as well which can also cause an awkward pain most likely in the side. I am pregnant as well (over 5 1/2 months) and i know all these pains cause i've already had a baby, however if i am uncertain of something or know what it is i always talk to my doctor about it, or keep a journal untill the next time i see him!! If you are comfortable with having the epideral then i would tell you to get it, take about it with your doctor, i did not have the epideral with my son and he was 9 LBS he was delivered naturally as well, and the one i have on the way will be the same as the first. Hope i helped, keep your head up, and don't worry your self so much its not healthy for you or the baby.... Take care and cheers!!
2006-09-29 05:33:05 · answer #4 · answered by Romy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember, women are made to give birth. And we've been doing it successfully for thousands and thousands of years. The odds of death during childbirth are very low unless you've got some sort of medical condition, etc.
Don't be scared of it ... it makes it worse if you're tense. Take a natural childbirth class like Lamaze. It may help ease some of your tension.
I'm expecting my 3rd child in Dec. I'm not scared at all, but I know what to expect. Hey, if it was so bad, we women wouldn't do it multiple times, now would we? :)
I had my first to (over 9 lbs each) with no meds, and I plan to have this one natural as well. But that's a personal choice.
Just focus on holding that precious baby in your arms for the first time, and it makes it all worthwhile.
2006-09-29 05:23:49 · answer #5 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are completely normal fears. I had the same fears that you are having and was sure that I would use Lamaze and have no pain medication or an epidural. I soon found out that I needed the epidural and it was the greatest relief, especially if you have to have a pit drip. (inducing medications) Do not be afraid to have an epidural. It will help you to relax and help you to rest and you will not be worn out when it is time to push.
I am not sure of the percentage of mothers that die during childbirth, but I can tell you that it is rare in these times, in hospital settings. I would suggest that you have your first child in a hospital. Please do not be so afraid of having your child because as soon as you see that sweet face you will forget any pain that you just went through and it will all be worth it.
2006-09-29 05:45:42 · answer #6 · answered by Colette B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very scary to think about but now that baby's got to come out one way or another, right? LOL Dying is slim because there is so much monitoring and technology today. And as far as pain...you'll hurt...but that little baby looking up at you makes it go away instantly. Learn all you can about different birthing options and positions, different medications, etc. And if you haven't yet, sign up and take a birthing class. That's SO incredibly informative and from my experience, they seperated us out to those who were first time moms and so the instructor was much more descriptive and helpful because she knew we really didn't know what to expect. Talk to your doctor and just relax. Until the time comes, you can't even imagine the feelings you will have, be it pain, joy, anxiety, whatever. Good luck and hope all goes well for you!
2006-09-29 05:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by missionhtg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are very low that you will die during childbirth... and hold out on medicine as long as you can since it could slow down the labor or make it stop... but just remember that the pain wont last forever and in no time you'll have a baby in your arms!
good luck!
2006-09-29 05:23:51 · answer #8 · answered by quiet_nights@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal top be scared. your chances of dying are very small. in your next dr visit, tell your dr your concerns about this and she/he will be able to console you. i had 2 natural childbirths and that was 8 and 10 years ago...but now if i get preg again, i will have an epidural!! all my friends have had them and said what a relief it is. it all depends on how well you handle the pain. its better for you AND the baby if you can relax and breathe during delivery. you will be just fine :) good luck and CONGRATS!!
2006-09-29 05:26:24 · answer #9 · answered by tulips♥77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I depends on how healthy you are, how complicated you pregnancy is.....there are a lot of different factors but most likely you will not die during childbirth. if you are that scared talk to your doctor and the father. it may help just having someone know how scared you are and someone to tell you that everything is gonna be okay.
2006-09-29 05:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by Kendall H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your chances are very slim nowadays there is so much technology out there that i would not worry about it but i have had two babies and the first one i was terrified i was terrified the second time i just knew i could do it but once labors starts you dont even realize what you are doing until after it is over then its all about your precious baby it will be ok just do what feels right in the moment as for the pain medication i didnt want it at all but after i started feeling the pain i got it...its the best thing i could have ever done you will be fine talk to your doctor about it to maybe he can help ease some of your fear
2006-09-29 05:19:31 · answer #11 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋