I've been going out with this guy for a year now and we aren't ready to tye the knot so to speak. I tryed talking to him and he wont listen, what do I do?
2006-09-29 05:06:41 · 26 answers · asked by wankawooney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He might be embarrassed. I'm thinking he has something good up his sleeve. Let it go. Let him bring it up.
2006-09-29 05:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by LuvsMochaCoffee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are not ready to tye the knot then... Try telling him if he dont listen then just Tell him alright.. If you cant take the time to understand me.. Then maybe we should take a break. Just a suggestion... Good luck!
2006-09-29 05:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and talk to him. If that dosn't work, give him a note to read that expresses your feelings. If he cares about you he will try to make you happy. Was it a party for a condo place? If so then he probably did that so yall wouldn't get in trubble. Because at those kind of parties only condo people are really supost to be there. Anywho, just talk to him. Things will turn out for the best
2006-09-29 06:49:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best answer is to just say take it as a form of flattery. Obviously he thinks you are marriage material and is proud of you. Take it as a compliment. But if it really bothers you, then you need to make your point clear to him. Tell him that he cannot keep introducing you as his wife, and if he continues you might have to set the record straight with his friends/other people at the party. Explain that you dont want to embarass him, so it is better if he just stops.
2006-09-29 05:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by AKA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it has a compliment. My bf and I are the same way. We aren't ready to get married, but we know we will one day. He is just letting people know he is taken and so are you. When people ask if I'm his wife my bf just smiles and says close enough.
2006-09-29 05:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by collegebusygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try being very blunt with this guy. tell him this really bothers u and u want him to stop doing this. if he just blows u off about this then it could be a look into the future with him for u . all he really should know is that it bothers u and that should be enough for him to stop it. if its not then u know who is most important for him. its not you. best of luck for u.
2006-09-29 05:11:20 · answer #6 · answered by skylinbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it's over if her carries on behaving like that - Why do men want to all get married all of a sudden...Don't ever marry if you want your freedom forever!
2006-09-29 05:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by NO1TOPICS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and let him talk, him saying you guys are married doesn't make it true!!
He will look stupid bc who claims they are married if there not and people will know he's lying if they ask u!!
2006-09-29 05:10:11 · answer #8 · answered by leenabootie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask where is this supposed ring at and tell him u have 2 pay the cost to be the boss.lol
2006-09-29 05:14:16 · answer #9 · answered by q45dip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he seriously thinks you will marry him soon, you probably need to leave. If he is just telling them that to fit in the party that is ok
2006-09-29 05:09:37 · answer #10 · answered by kerry9477 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋