I was kissing down the chest of a guy I really like and all of a sudden he said ' it feels nice but your luring me in' and tried to push me off. can someone explain to me what this means and why he did this?
2006-09-29 05:02:59 · 27 answers · asked by Queenbee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't sound very interested.
2006-09-29 05:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by bc.grown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the situation here? Is this your boyfriend, or just some guy you like? Because if you're initiating intimacy with someone in which the lines weren't drawn yet, then this could mean many things. Best case scenario, he likes and respects you. And what you were doing could lead to sex. He stopped you because he didn't want to take advantage of you. Worse case, he lost all respect for you because you seemed like a slut that would give it up anytime. What every happened to getting to know someone before you get intimate?
2006-09-29 12:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The word "lure" makes me think distrust. Or he thinks women trap men into doing stuff or falling in love with them. He has a problem with women or so it seems. Most men would NEVER push you off. Be careful.
2006-09-29 12:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by lucy p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he knew what u already knew he just beat u to the punch! he knew already that nothing was gonna go down (meaning no sex) and he was not trying 2 get all hot and bothered 4 no reason or just 2 make u happy that u were doing something that u liked and got joy out of. it might have felt good BUT it does not equal out if thats all that would have happened and he was not going 4 it , he already knows that u werent going 2 do much after that cant blame him i guess he is already wise 2 your games, not cool. steph.
2006-09-29 12:09:05 · answer #4 · answered by q45dip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically he doesn't want to commit, Have you know this guy for that long? I would move on or just come out and ask him, what did you mean by your action. Be prepared you may not like his answer.
2006-09-29 12:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by debbie w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could only come up with two conclusions.
#1. He was either getting turned on, and he wasn't ready to have sex with you yet....
OR...
#2. He was getting hooked on you period and he doesn't want to be attached by any woman right now.
For more definite answers, ask him! But that's the best I could come up with, hope it helped!
2006-09-29 12:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by Chanel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's not sure if he wants to get closer with you , he has thoughts for another girl he can't get at least for the moment , he wants to stay available for her , or maybe he wants to became priest or something like that.
2006-09-29 12:22:11 · answer #7 · answered by Paul Alexandru Cazacliu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wanted some more and thot u wouldnt give it or somethin and just pushed u off.
2006-09-29 12:05:58 · answer #8 · answered by murnda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were alone w/ him and just stopped at this or you two weren't in a private place so 'nothing doin', he may think you're a tease.
2006-09-29 12:08:38 · answer #9 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants more but he doesnt want the relationship to progress to quickly. Perhaps he thinks it will scare you if he asks for more or maybe he doesnt want to get too close to you too quickly.
2006-09-29 12:05:59 · answer #10 · answered by AKA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has a girlfriend, or maybe he's trying to slow you down... Meaning he's not reay to go there with you yet
2006-09-29 12:06:06 · answer #11 · answered by keisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋