Since we have been together I have loaned him money treated him out to lunch and all i get is the you know what. he is very sweet and a private person but something tells me I should leave it alone. I need some advice please. I just do not want to be hurt again. Before my feeelings get any deeper then what they are.
2006-09-29 04:59:16 · 8 answers · asked by pooh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey pooh ! Listen here......The best way to beat the chances to be hurt is to talk straight before ; at first you dream around whole day for him before you ask him......and then you shed tears later for a longish pain in your heart if he refuses (god be kind ..... he shouldn't) Go for it and ask him straight.........You might feel "What if he refuses ?" Always better than never knowing about it and shedding tears later.
see ya !!
Do tell what happens!
2006-09-29 05:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by saurav_flyboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are his sugar mamma. You have already said it yourself... "all i get is the you know what". That isn't a relationship. I mean if he contributes himself in other ways then money then fine. ie. doing the dishes, a nice back rub when you a tired, makes the bed... ect. then he is a keeper. maybe he is in a tough time financially. Most of us have been there you can't fault him for that, unless he has a serious gambling problem or something.
2006-09-29 12:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by Virginia1228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave him alone. It seems to me like a one-way relationship, and I know you don't want that for yourself. While dating, he should be concerned with taking care you "you", treating you out to nice lunches/dinners and doing other nice things for you. Don't let anyone run over you, or hurt you. Move on and seek a man who is willing to pamper you in the way you should be pampered!
2006-09-29 12:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by Chanel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him to shiit or get off the pot...you want something definite...if he wants to leave you in limbo..well move on I bet he will give you the attention you need when you ignore him!
2006-09-29 12:02:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts, girl, and get out!
2006-09-29 12:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by AKA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want everything from him at any cost. it is your feeling.
2006-09-29 16:35:21 · answer #6 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him and tell him he's funny
2006-09-29 12:03:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is your call
2006-09-29 12:02:07 · answer #8 · answered by 185 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋