Sisters! asalam a lakium!! Do you feel guilty when you Cannot fast for a few days during Ramadan and your husband still does? I feel soooooo bad :(
2006-09-29 04:54:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Ramadan
I know what you mean. During those days I do not eat in front of my husband.
2006-09-29 09:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by Mahira 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Actually there is no reason to feel bad because Allah made women this way and he ordered us NOT to fast during our menstruation period. After all, we still need to make up those fasts after Ramadan is over, so it is not as if you are doing less fasts, you and hubby are just doing them at different times. However, I can understand what you're saying. Sometimes I feel bad when I wake my husband up for Fajr and I am still in bed sleeping, but what can we do, right? It is natural. =)
2006-10-02 18:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I was pregnant and with my Islamic in-laws in Syria during my first Ramadan. I would not be required to fast because of pregnancy and medication I was on---but felt so guilty that I did so anyway.
2006-09-29 16:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by patlrussell 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feeling about .. some times when u cannot fast for a reason like the period i feel guilty but i am not .. always if i am not fasting i drink only water i know that i most eat bcoz its allowed .. but i eat with my family as normal :)
i feel bad also bcoz days of Ramadan pass and i cannot pray and fast on :(
2006-09-29 17:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by Alone 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No , I don't because God gave it to us as help ,our bodies during the period become so weak
plus ,as soon as the periods ends for the women at the end of 40s , you will have to fast the whole month just like my mom
2006-10-01 15:08:56 · answer #5 · answered by zeinobia 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We have been created to have a biological break of one week during Ramadhan, so as long as you make up for the fasts you have missed, you shouldn't feel bad.
2006-10-01 14:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by sugarsweet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not feel quilty because it is normal physyology that some days womed are out of prayers.
I m ok as I know after Eid I will fast these missing days..
2006-10-01 05:10:09 · answer #7 · answered by Suomi 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no, because afterwards u have to pay those days in, and then the rest of the world isnt fasting!
anyway i still wake up when he does.
2006-10-03 05:41:56 · answer #8 · answered by marmalade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol yes!!! i just recently converted so this is really my first year, i love the religion but even when we werent married yet i tried fasting each year cuz i wud feel so guilty!!! it makes me sad i wudnt even eat in front of him lol.
2006-09-29 16:09:22 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ YaHabibeDisney ♥ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Walaikumasalam
The only reason i resent those few days is that i am not able to recite any quran or pray.
2006-10-02 02:22:20 · answer #10 · answered by Mishy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋