why is it that everytime i let my gaurd down i get hurt and everytime i keep my distance the girl falls so hard for me that its unatractive is there no happy median and why is it that yall make the worst excuses to break up... I.E. not ready for a relationship but if i was i would want it to be with you... Or Lets just be friends.
Justin
2006-09-29 04:49:22 · 21 answers · asked by Justin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, the bad excuses are a way of NOT flat out hurting your feelings. Would you prefer that we say, "you're a dork and I don't like you, leave me alone" or "you're crazy...stay away from me"...Maybe they really mean what they say..but either way...the same result...they just don't want to be with you..period..end of story. There's a reason why it hasn't worked out with anyone yet and that's because you haven't found the right person for you, plain and simple. If you're having repeat situations with different girls, why don't you look at how you deal with these girls. It could be you. On a more positive note..remember that something better will come along..it always does..and one day you'll meet the girl for you and you'll realize why it never worked out with anyone else!Trust in the fact that you will find that special girl..so when someone gives you those famous words you mentioned...smile and say "you're right...this didn't work for me either!"
Good luck, I hope that helped!!
2006-09-29 04:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! You're complaining when some girls don't fall for you, and also bitching about when some girls do! A little picky, aren't we?
Girls suck and boys suck too. The bottom line here is that immature people suck. Once you grow up and get into a relationship with a grown-up, then all the mind game go bye bye. Just remember, you could be just as guilty for playing mind games yourself.
2006-09-29 05:06:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I do suck....it works the other way around too hun! I've been hurt alot in the past, as I'm sure most people have. It's just the way things are! Plus, is there a nice way to break up with someone? I don't think so.
2006-09-29 04:53:08 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Sammi♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't expect girls just to fall for you. You be b itching and complaining about how girls suck when they don't fall for you. Get over it. Like seriously, boys suck too and you don't see me complain, do you? No so shut the hell up and get over it you son of a *****
2015-05-09 14:27:52 · answer #4 · answered by mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All girls don't suck,if anything why you are making it seem to be that we are bad you might just be gay. And many years ago y'all treated us women like we were s*** and now it's like we are getting revenge on y'all and you just cant handle the pressure,and don't seem like you re all goody too shoes are you sure there's not a reason why you are getting his f***** up treatment.Take into consideration.
2006-09-29 05:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by Sister Queen Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, girls want to be with the guy they cannot have. So if you appear to be aloof and dont care about getting them, then they want you that much more. Sorry, that is just the way we are.
2006-09-29 04:52:08 · answer #6 · answered by AKA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls do suck, they make up stupid excuses because they don;t want to hurt you. It would be better if eveyone was just honest and straightforward, sorry that they are doing that to you. Most girls are really shitty, and yes i am a girl
2006-09-29 04:52:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay Justin.... like Sammi said is there a nice way of breakin up ??? if u think so u need 2 start thinkin again!!! ive had my heart broke but i moved on and u need 2 start. MOVE ON AND GET OVER IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-29 05:04:13 · answer #8 · answered by murnda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright Mary quit your whining. Bag 'em and move on. Like Onyx said, "stick snd move".
2006-09-29 04:52:30 · answer #9 · answered by Chuck N Knutz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
think it's pretty much what the rest us have experienced... sorry u're gg thru that now...
Guess when we say those things, we're trying our best not to hurt you or say any awkward thing.... but oh well.. it just comes out wrong anyway....
There's no logic in all this
2006-09-29 05:12:32 · answer #10 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋