my best friend is getting married tomorrow and i'm the maid of honor and i helped w/ the bridal show i made the favors, decorations, cake. and i'm helping her decorate about 21/2 hour of help. she didn't do anything for my shower or wedding. she didn't even show up for the shower and the wedding she helped decorate about 11/2 hours of work. do i just feel bad because i didn't help as much or don't worry about it because of what she did for me and i've done alot more because all she did was buy a dress and show up for the wedding
2006-09-29 04:45:53 · 8 answers · asked by echoroxy01 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I think you have done and are doing everything that a friend and maid of honor should do. I feel that you've certainly performed your duties to a T. From all the brides out there thanks for being such a good maid of honor. I think you are just frustrated because you've done soo much and she did soo little, some people are just that way. Just try to remember the positive points of why you are friends with her. Have fun at the wedding, you're almost done your duty!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-29 04:51:04 · answer #1 · answered by rose t 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I wouldn't worry about it. It sounds like you did more than your fair share in comparison to what she did for you. I had a really crappy maid of honor myself, the only difference was that she was my sister! She didn't help with anything, she actually made more work for me to do! She complained and started a fight with one of my groomsmen, and then threw a little tantrum and made me cry on my wedding day, right before pictures! It sounds as if you did quite a bit to help your friend out and she did nothing for you, when the tables were turned. Help with the decorating like you already said you would, get dressed, show up, enjoy yourself and be done with it. :) Definitely don't feel bad!! :)
Good Luck
2006-09-29 15:35:00 · answer #2 · answered by **hope/faith**1744 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a little unclear about the problem. It seems like you helped more but you say you didn't help as much. I'm confused.
All in all don't worry about it. Just go to the wedding, be a good friend and all is well.
2006-09-29 11:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by bubb1e_gir1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help because you WANT to, not because you feel you HAVE to. You sound as though you are just keeping score. Do what you know is right...brides aren't thinking straight this close to the big day. Help her and forget about it - don't go whining to others how much work you did. Jeez.
2006-09-29 11:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by applebetty34 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Two wrong's don't make a right. I guess you can tell that I'm a mother. You should do what you think in your heart is right don't worry about what other people do.
2006-09-29 11:53:02 · answer #5 · answered by Shonreaq G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have done enough...thank goodness she has a friend like you!
Just to let you know, my maid of honour was utterly useless!!!
2006-09-29 14:58:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've helped plenty! Besides, it's too late now :o).
2006-09-29 13:49:38 · answer #7 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've echoed your own question.
2006-09-29 11:55:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋