how do i know when a guy is really firting with me and not just kidding? and do you feel about a sexual aggressive women is that a turn on or turn off?
2006-09-29 04:44:07 · 25 answers · asked by vtpatbrat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no he's not married we talk all the time when we see each other but he flirts with others to but we me it seems differant we had plans to go to lunch and asked him if we where really going to have lunch or "lunch"(meaning we sleep together) and he told me ANYTHING i want i can have but we joke around a lot so how do i get to the bottom of this and see if he is serious?
2006-09-29 04:59:27 · update #1
without looking like a idiot too
2006-09-29 05:00:28 · update #2
sexually agressive =yummy bring it on baby, How do you know if the flirting is real. Well to guys flirting is always real if we think we have a shot at getting some. If we get shot down then we were only joking. Rarely do we flirt with someone were not interested in.
2006-09-29 04:45:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your question is way too general regarding both issues.
1. To answer the flirting thing, we need more info on what he's like as a person, and what exactly his flirting is comprised of.
2. To answer this, it depends on the guy's viewpoint toward strong women. Personally, I like it when women are sexually aggressive (but not too overboard, or you'll look desperate, and that's a turn off for both sexes), but again, I'm the kind of man who is not intimidated by strong women. In fact, I'd rather be with a women who is strong-willed and assertive like I am (indeed, my wife is a strong woman). However, not all men like that, and some are intimidated by women who know what they want and aren't afraid to go get it. Us mature men call these people 'boys', and before you get on me about my age, I'm only 27. :) Beyond that, you have the unfair double standard society places on women, namely, that its encouraged for men to be promiscuous but shameful for a woman to so be. If you're OK thumbing your nose up at that viewpoint, then by all means.
2006-09-29 11:52:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude it's all about body language and actions. Does he come to you for conversation when he can talk to other people? Is his body facing your direction when talking? Any eye contact? Is he smiling when talks to you? Is he trying to make you laugh?
Oh and the "sexual aggressive woman" thing is a hit or miss type of deal. Some guys love this type of woman & hope one finds them. While some will avoid that all together. Just feel it out, read his expressions. That way you won't scare him away if you plan to make the move.
2006-09-29 11:51:33 · answer #3 · answered by Will Gotham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the guy is more interested in sex then he is just flirting. If he wants to talk about sex too often then you should be carefull. Sexual aggresive women is mostly a turn on but it depends on the nature of man as well. If he is of conservative nature then he may don't like it
2006-09-29 11:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by sony_sony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know if a guy is flirting ... watch his eyes, lips and the way he stands
I love a woman to be sexually aggressive ... just come over and take me! lol
2006-09-29 11:46:00 · answer #5 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexually aggressive HOT women are a turn on. We've all been hit on by "foxy grandmas" and nasty skanks...and it's the stuff of nightmares.
Guys flirt only when they want something - not just sex. Maybe he wants you to do his homework, mow his lawn, cook him dinner...who knows?
2006-09-29 11:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by Glockmeister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he asked you out? Of course he could be a little shy.
And I have no problem with aggressive women, it isn't always easy to figure out what it is you women want. So take the lead and ask him out? That should answer both your questions.
2006-09-29 11:49:29 · answer #7 · answered by usaf.primebeef 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirting is flirting you can tell the difference. men like women who are confident with their sexuality but dont keep offering it on a plate I had a girl like that and it made me just want to find someone else. if you mean by scratching and kidney punching then I woudnt like that.
2006-09-29 11:49:23 · answer #8 · answered by spunkster12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he married? if not then he proably likes you. Kidding is a "cowardly" way of flirting. I dont meen that in a bad way but I cant think of a more proper word.
By kidding, if you dont respond he can always fall back on his comments as a joke, if you do respond... well then.. hes made some progress.
2006-09-29 11:47:52 · answer #9 · answered by Wilson Wilson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love a woman that knows what she wants and goes and gets it,
as for the flirting is there any sexual content to it,, if yes,, then he is interested
2006-09-29 11:48:16 · answer #10 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋