I have a guy friend that I am cool with all the way back from school. We like the same things and sports. We just started to sleeping together this year. I told him that we need to stop because we were having more sex then anything.We haven't had sex in about three months.For the last month he was saying things like I want you to have my kids and he is going to be my mother son in law. I took it as a joke. Mine, I have 2 kids already. He comes by and we watch tv and stuff. He could spend the night and we would have no sex, but last night we did. It just happen and I think the two of us wasn't prepared because we went without so long.We had sex without condoms and yes lazy got carried away and didn't pull out. I am on the pill thought, thank you god!
I don't know if I should believe him about the things that he said. I know one thing the baby things is way off, I don't want no more and he knows that. I wonder if he is trying to prove a point. Do you think its a game?
2006-09-29 04:27:11 · 17 answers · asked by funoburgmom 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And for those who care to know where is my babys' father, he was killed 2 years ago.
2006-09-29 04:57:12 · update #1
well if you guys are like that alot then thats all he probably wants from you but i dont no i mean you might think they bare lieing but there not it all depends on what you think
2006-09-29 04:31:56 · answer #1 · answered by jeterlover_2010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're both playing games, russian roulette. There is soooo much wrong with what the two of you are doing, I don't know where to begin. For one, why do you have two kids already? There are steps people should take before just having kids and being someones in-law, and both parties should be old enough to handle the responsiblity and want it. They should also discuss what kind of future they both want and ideas on child rearing, beliefs, morality, ethics, sensibility, work ethics, etc. There' more to being a family than doing the deed and saying you want it. What do you think you are teaching your children about life by having casual sex? I don't think you're stupid so why are you making stupid choices and letting someone dictate what you might want. No where did I hear love or respect mentioned in your story.
2006-09-29 11:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by candeekissez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he's still hanging around after not having sex with you for 3 months, afterpreviously having a sexual relationship with you, he probably isn't playing games. He wants to be with you. I can't say if it's for the right reasons, I wouldn't know, but he doesn't seem to be playing games, from an objective point of view.
2006-09-29 11:31:23 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, 3 months and he stayed around? It sounds for real.
2006-09-29 11:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by RJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may not be. i mean, he stayed around this long.but den again,it may be because maybe he just stayed around because he couldn't get anyone else's good within that three months period or he just know you got the goods and want to see what else is in store. so....HELL YEAH
2006-09-29 11:33:47 · answer #5 · answered by diedra06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he mean it but he my be playing a game wit u but im only 15 idont no i need the points
2006-09-29 11:36:40 · answer #6 · answered by im hot as your regular gemini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it a game men are so smart my ex when i broke up with him he was keep calling me and propose me to marry him and when i use to forgive him then he forgot all about marriage move on if you want you can date him
2006-09-29 11:34:16 · answer #7 · answered by maya 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be cautious about this. It sounds like he may be just using you.
2006-09-29 11:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by anjel136 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya its game leave him before you put yourself in a situation where he is around all the time
2006-09-29 11:41:18 · answer #9 · answered by concrete water 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-09-29 11:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋