well..i just find out tat my bf loves the other gal ..we have been known each other over one year already ........He proposed tat gal last Feb 2006 .At the same time he was asking me too.......I didnt believe it...how come he did it to me? I love him...but i feel tat he s cheating me........ Does he want to catch two fishes at the same time.? Wat m i going to do now? But he doesnt noe tat wat i found out? Do i need to talk to him? Does he really love me or not?? or he just playing me?? how ?? What should i do now?? just end our relationship??
2006-09-29 04:15:31 · 10 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you choose to participate in this insanity.?
2006-09-29 04:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl dont be stupid. sounds to me like he's trying to catch more than one fish. and dont just end the relationship try talkin about it with him. tell him that u know about what he's doing and that he needs to pick you or her. make sure the other person is around too. in other words, try to catch him up in somewhat of a classy way. not ghetto or messy, but let it have some class. its impossible to love two people the same way. either he he have confused feelings, wanna be a pimp, or just love one of you more than the other. its up to you two to figure out which one he has the most love for...
2006-09-29 04:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by diedra06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well firstly it doesn't matter how long you've known each other that guy aint gud enough for you. i know it hurts but if you know whats right for you break up with him! the best person to decide is you though but if i was you i would breakup with him. at this point it doesnt matter if he loves you what matters is if you trust him or not and i know you dont cause you're asking the rest of the world what to do. thing of what he's done to you. good kuck in what you decide to do and he's cheating and lying so dont stay with him
2006-09-29 04:24:39 · answer #3 · answered by foxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to sit down and talk to him, there is no reason that grown-ups can't act like it. you need to tell him what you found out and see what his intentions are. he just might of reached the point in his life where he wants a family and house with his wife in the picture, not just a baby mother. If you love him its not that easy to just call it quits so think about it first before you act any way with him.
2006-09-29 04:22:23 · answer #4 · answered by the truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't confuse yourself.
it's quite clear to the rest of us that this guy isn't being honest and sincere.
He proposed to another girl?
NOT GOOD. NOT NORMAL. NOT ACCEPTABLE.
Yes, you shld end this r/s. Yes he was playing you.
And yes, you must face reality and forget all the sweet words, moments and things he did. They didn't stem out of true care and you must recognise the deception!
2006-09-29 04:21:03 · answer #5 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look this guy is playing you like a fiddle. All these silly little games. You need to end this relationship and move on in life. You deserve better than this, please find someone else with less baggage and drama in their lives.
2006-09-29 04:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to dump him. Emotionally he is cheating as he is not being true to only you. If you reversed the situation and you were asking 2 guys to marry you would he stick around? Hes trying to have his cake and eat it to.
2006-09-29 04:23:39 · answer #7 · answered by autumnl78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know full well that he still loves another girl and even asked her to marry him, why would you even be considering staying with him??
2006-09-29 04:18:03 · answer #8 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it means anything to u, u should talk about it!! if u dont u will regret if for the rest of ur life!!!! if u dont ask u will never know!!
2006-09-29 04:18:40 · answer #9 · answered by Simone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON.. youre not a priority to him,
2006-09-29 04:19:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋