I was on a first date some time ago and we got on very well and she kissed me first.We kissed quite a bit but she said my kissing was too heavy and i needed to be more gentle.After she said this i kissed more slower and with less demand which made the kissing better.I know how to kiss but some woman like the full on kiss,others the gentle approach.My question to you is what do you prefer????Do you find that you have to tell your man how to kiss properley?Im getter older and wiser on kissing so confident in myself to kiss a woman,when i was younger it was nerve racking.I love kissing a woman around the neck that usually goes down well!!!!xxxxx
2006-09-29 04:14:49 · 14 answers · asked by hellraisersteve 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends how it went on the date... lets say you had a hell of a great time and you don't want to ruin the evening..then give her a light simple kiss and for sure if she wanted a heavier one, the very next day she might be yearning for that hard kiss you didn't give her.. added bonus:second date!
its also an advantage you don't do hard and heavy on the 1st date because you never know the girl might get tuned of from your "over" aggressiveness.
2006-09-29 04:20:13 · answer #1 · answered by Kai-girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
On the first date it has to be a kiss on the lips, softly with no tounge
From then on there can be a little tounge but only a taster a I want to be left wanting more.
No under the sweater action until at least the 4th or 5th date!
2006-09-29 11:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by DippyGirl78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gently at first, and if the vibes and electricity are there, full on mind blowing tongue on tongue I want to grind that body of yours into the ground type of kiss....even after dating someone for along time, that is the way I like to kiss (and the longer the gentle lasts, the better the full on is :)
2006-09-29 11:22:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
On a first date, some girls may not even want to kiss. So take it slowly and gently. If you feel the mood is right, then kiss her, but don't make it too passionate or hard or else you might scare her away. Take it slow--it will be worth your while!
2006-09-29 11:17:53 · answer #4 · answered by AKA 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not on the first date, a hug is cool, kissing can wait for the third or fourth date, just to keep em curious u know!!! Different kissing for different situations is my way... In public i keep it discreet, near family n friends a quick peck on the lips will do. but at home??? It's totally going down!!! Very hard, hot and way way FRENCH!!!! ha ha ha!!!
2006-09-29 11:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I go with the flow of the moment someitmes hot n steamy other times teneder n soft but what ever cause these things should never be to staged or it won't feel right.
2006-09-29 12:06:34 · answer #6 · answered by charlotte e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should always go with the flow. Some people are compatible at kissing and some aren't, but there is no wrong way of kissing.
2006-09-29 11:20:39 · answer #7 · answered by angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kissing around the neck sounds good
definately nooooooooooo tongue
nice and slow and gentle
2006-09-29 11:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by TAN GIRL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just a peck on the lips, nothing worse than a guy slobbering over you on the first date, I would think he was after one thing or a perv!
2006-09-29 11:31:02 · answer #9 · answered by Annie M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i want to be kissed on a first date, i like it soft and gentle.
when I'm ready for more, i initiate it!!! lol xxx
2006-09-29 12:31:32 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs Chicagosgirl!! 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋