Three-some, was it two guys or two girls? Did you like it? I want details, my boyfriend wants to have a three some but I am unsure. I want to know how common it is and what it is like. Also, ladies did you do it with someone you knew(if it was a girl), was it ur best friend. Details please!
2006-09-29 03:58:14 · 21 answers · asked by Sexy Love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Me and my b/f have set some rules for a three some, and I do prefer to do it with someone I don't know just because that would be a little akward.
2006-09-29 04:03:43 · update #1
I'll answer the first two questions: yes and kinda. You definitely get a lot more foreplay out of the deal, but it's irritating having to remember whose hand is on which of your body parts when it comes time to tell them to ease up or do more.
I'll warn you now that part of the reason your guy wants a threesome is he wants to see two girls getting it on. Try proposing a threesome where you bring another guy to bed; I'll bet he squirms.
Also, if you decide to go for this, make sure it is VERY clearly spelled out who gets to do what with/to whom - if you're bringing another girl to bed with you, does your boyfriend get to have sex with her? If not, make sure everybody knows this ahead of time! And make sure that consequences are clearly spelled out for any violations - and that you're prepared to enforce them.
2006-09-29 04:04:30 · answer #1 · answered by Katie S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never done one so I might not be the best source; however, I can help you out with other people's experiences. First off, you should probably do the threesome with someone you don't know too well because it can cause problems within the relationship. For instance, if it is someone you know well, there could be some jealousy issues after the love making.
Second, set some ground rules with what is "ok". You don't want to look over at your boyfriend screwing the new girl (or guy) while you are just sitting there by yourself.
I hope that helps...
2006-09-29 11:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you should only do it if YOU really want to do it yourself! Don't do it to please your boyfriend, because that is asking for trouble.
Yes, I once had a threesome. It was cool because we all three wanted it and me and my boyfriend where still a front together.
I am a woman, and we had a girl with us I vaguely knew. She was incredibly beautifull and the initiative was mine.
But it is dangerous ground you are getting yourself into. Jealousy is just around the corner, and you have to be sure that the third person does respect your relationship. You should also be very sure why you want it and why your boyfriend wants it. He should make you feel like you are the queen of the castle, you should be together in this adventure, for a reason that you both agree with.
And even then, it is still a dangerous thing.
How would you feel if you saw your boyfriend with an other woman? If you have only a tiny gutfeeling, don't!
2006-09-29 11:06:14 · answer #3 · answered by Bloed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you need to know why you are going to have it. Does your boy friend want to sleep with another woman, and is including you so he wont be cheating?? Does your boyfriend want to watch some other man with you?? Either way there could very well be jealousy issues. I wouldn't suggest someone you both know well. And if he already has someone in mind, then you have a whole other issue.
STD's play a big part in choosing a stranger, so be careful there. Yet if this is something you are both very interested in, then I suggest that you choose some one that will be there as the pleaser. You and your mate will be having your night play as usual, only this other person will be there to take up the four play slack and please you both ....equally... this way it is still about the two of you, only this person, lets say she will be a live sex toy for both of you.
This way it will be about you two and she is just there, and no reasons for jealousy because it is still just about you two.
2006-09-29 11:23:58 · answer #4 · answered by rebecwi3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are very interested........try it you'll never know what its like unless you do i would stay away from freinds or people who are involved with your life on daily basis that could get complicated sorry no details to give the world. I will just say after one time you will know if you want to do it again or if you want to keep it a memory of when you did wild and crazy things......:) Then again the past can byte you in the butt sometimes.... Good Luck!
2006-09-29 11:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by ibkiah1978@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive never had one, but know women who have.They have good and bad stories. It's very common for those that are into it. Ask yourself if its something you want to do, dont do it because he wants it. Trust is the big issue here and some things you do sexually changes you forever. Instead of it being a one time thing, he or you might want to do it on a regular basis. I wouldnt let my best friend sleep with my boyfriend, gross, and it spoils the friendship. Good luck on your venture.
2006-09-29 11:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've known people who have done it. If you do it, you need to be very secure in your relationship. Often there are feelings of jealousy afterward. You may think that your boyfriend liked the other girl more or whatever the case may be.
2006-09-29 11:00:52 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeh 2m 1f. all I can say is make sure of one thing. You are comfortable with all aspects of your emotions about yourself, your partner and the thought of your partner being intimate with someone other than you, even if you are right there. also be aware of how it may impact relationships between those involved after the fact. Beware the weirdness factor
2006-09-29 11:07:00 · answer #8 · answered by maximus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ive done it and deeply regretted it,
it really doesn't matter how strong your relationship is, the visual that gets pasted in your mind can haunt you forever.
its destroyed what was once a great relationship...
think long and hard on this...get creative with each other
hope that helps some...
2006-09-29 11:10:17 · answer #9 · answered by rainbowz001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've done it. A good friend, not my best. We liked it. But you need to be very secure with your partner and it needs to be with someone both of you absolutely trust. Good luck and use condoms!
2006-09-29 11:05:16 · answer #10 · answered by caseofyou2003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋