i work at gas station and this summer a man came in the store and wanted to talk to me. i assumed he was no more than 18 so i gave him my number we started talking and he found out i was only 16 and i found out he was 25, but he told me age doesnt matter so after a while we got real close and stuff he wanted me to move in with him and he said he loved me and that as long as i was his gurl i never had to worry about anything but recently he went to jail should i just forget about him and move on or should i stick with the man who promised me the world???
2006-09-29 03:40:56 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ok, two things how old are you? 16 is pretty young to date a 25 year old MAN!! and what did he go to jail for? that may help decide... and if your really truly in love stay with him if its a happy healthy relationship which it doesnt really seem to be!! sorry babe i would move on
2006-09-29 03:44:50 · answer #1 · answered by So Happy!! 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh, I have sooo much I want to say..
1) NEVER assume a man's age, especially when you are a minor (this applies to marital status, too!!!!)
2) Never give your number out so easily
3) Why would a 16 year old want to be with a 25 year old? What could you possibly have in common? Life experiences, music tastes, hobbies, everything should be worlds apart. If they're not, then he is very immature (this isn't a reflection on you, only him) and will only cause you problems down the road
Listen to that little voice inside. It's there to help you choose what's right and what's not. There's a reason the law draws a line to differentiate kids from adults. I know it can be frustrating when you're feeling ready to grow up. But someone old enough to have a masters degree shouldn't be attracted to someone who doesn't even have a drivers license (let alone legal adult status). He isn't right inside.
This doesn't even start to address his legal/criminal problems beyond the pedophile issues.
RUN--don't walk-away. And use much, much, much better judgement and set much, much higher standards when you select your next boyfriend. You're setting yourself up for a life of unhappiness; you deserve better!
2006-09-29 05:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by DivaDynamite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not stick with him at all. How can he promise you the world when he is in jail. You are too young to even think about really being in a serious relationship. He is almost 10 years old then you and the only reason he wants to be with you is that he knows that he can control you. Don't waste your time on someone like that. You deserve a lot better.
2006-09-29 03:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by JUSTME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON girlfriend for this man is NOT going to give you the world. Ask your self how can he do so when he is incarcerated.? As far as age it probably would not matter if you where 18 and have your schooling done but he is 25 so he is up to NO GOOD. You are young so just go on and live your life.
2006-09-29 03:56:20 · answer #4 · answered by Board 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PROMISED YOU THE WORLD ???is your name Bonnie Parker ???leave that so called man alone. A real good man with real character would not have gone out with a girl of 16 .he may tell you that age doesn't matter and tell you how mature you are,but you know you aren't that mature to handle a so called man of that age and experience.He just wants someone he can control and a woman his age would not fit the bill. why not find someone a little younger who is going to school and heading towards a future that doesn't include a criminal record. there is a real man out here who can give you the world,but he's probably in school working on that.
2006-09-29 03:48:49 · answer #5 · answered by punkin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is in jail now, how many more times will he end up in there, look at the life you could have. It would be terrible. If he is that much older and you are only 16, he just wants to be in control, and with you, he thinks if he promises you the world, that will be enough to drag you along in his messed up life. Good God honey, please for the sake of your life, find someone else who will respect your age, and let you finish growing up and being a teen, than someone who wants you to move in already. There is plenty of time....Get over him...Good luck and take care of YOU!
2006-09-29 03:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him for now. Move on with your life, study and have fun while he is in jail. In a couple of years you will know if he can really give you the world he promised you, but for now he surely can't.
You are still young and have time to meet the man of your dreams.
2006-09-29 03:56:29 · answer #7 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like to me his promise fell through.What did he go to jail for?At 16 your not grown up enough to get into that serious of a relationship,when I was 16 I look back now and realize I was just a silly little girl and made so many mistakes.Age don,t matter cause he is older,but at 16? age does matter
2006-09-29 03:46:33 · answer #8 · answered by slickcut 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh God please move on, any guy who gets locked up cannot promise you nothing but heartache, he took advantage of you, you 16 and yes even if you think that you are a mature 16 year old he still took advantage of you, he could wait till you were 18 and legal, and of course age didn't matter to him he said that to get them panties, move on move on move on move on, and if you didn't get what I was saying, move on, get an education and give yourself the world.
2006-09-29 03:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by Proverbs 31 women 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's going to be hard for him to give you the world from behind bars. Move on. He took advantage of you and your naivety. Guys promise girls the world all the time. It doesn't mean you're gonna get it.
2006-09-29 03:43:46 · answer #10 · answered by CrazyJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋