and leaving sweet messages. just yesterday he left me a song called Beautiful which when we were together he dedicated to me the reason why we broke up was because he told his ex we never had anything going on and she wouldnt stop calling me. but when me and her talked we found out he was playing not only us two but another gurl too. now he wants me back what should i do?????
2006-09-29 03:28:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont take him back, he already had you and took it for granted...
2006-09-29 03:30:44 · answer #1 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you're asking means that you are considering it.
You're not going to listen to an ounce of logic or anything that the people are saying here.
You're going to get right back with him before the end of the week.
In a few weeks you're going to have a fight, then he's going to dump you again for another one of his ex's and then he'll probably repeat the cycle and you'll go along with it until you're pregnant or have a disease.
I've seen this so many times that i dont feel sorry for them anymore.
2006-09-29 10:33:44 · answer #2 · answered by Kid A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont take him back. He left you for his ex to have fun with in the summer and now that the winter is coming he wants to snuggle up under you.. hell no!!!!
Guess the grass wasnt greener on the other side... now he realizes he made a mistake.
If he left once, he'll leave again just as soon as he thinks he has a better opportunity... thats not love!!!
2006-09-29 10:35:13 · answer #3 · answered by PG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking you just answered your own question. Let's recap: He dumped you for his ex...when you talked to her, you found out he's playin' you, her and two other girls?!?! I say dump the chump! Normally, when a guy dumps you for an ex, he'll always come crawling back when the "exes" kick him to the curb. He's a "jumper" he jumps from from one girl to another. Tell him the love songs aren't working, go find someone else to play....then I'd tell him to pound sand! Good luck!
2006-09-29 10:36:36 · answer #4 · answered by lil_rowdy1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like this guy doesn't really care for any of you. I think he's just getting off on how he's manipulating all of you and playing you off one another. Girl you don't need that kind of man in your life. Tell him to hit the road, change your number and go out and enjoy your life without all of that drama. hopefully somewhere along the way you'll find a real man who'll treat you like you should be. they are out there and when you find one you'll wonder why you ever wasteed your time on that loser
2006-09-29 10:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by K C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you shouldnt even have to ask this question. He was playing the both of you and someone else??? Hes a player,,and he got what he wanted from the other girls...now hes trying to get you back to get what he wants from you. Dont even listen to what he has to say....be strong and tell him to screw off. You dont need a loser like that..Hes just using you and everyone else. Find an honest man.
2006-09-29 10:31:41 · answer #6 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I wouldn't go back out with him. My friends went through almost the same thing. But they got him back. They were going out with him at the same time and they kept playing guilt trips on him until finally he gave in. But tell him to leave you alone and that if he wanted you in the first place he wouldn't have broken up with you the first time.
2006-09-29 10:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by ♥£eah♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously don't take him back. it sounds just like what my friend's ex is doing. he broke up with her saying "i don't have time for a girlfriend right now"
and he went back to his ex. Now he won't stop calling her and saying that he wants to hang out and wants to get back together.....
he's nothing but a loser...you need to find a good man.
2006-09-29 10:32:02 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him back, shower him with love and attention. Make him go crazy with desire and then one fine day tell him you are seeing someone else and wanna end this all. That will be a very sweet revenge. Go ahead and try this.
2006-09-29 10:35:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn away girl! Dump Him!!!
he is a stupid playboy! and I am sure you don't want anything to do with a playboy coz at last you will be the one getting hurt and I am sure those other girls he is with, gets hurt too.
There is so much better guys in the world than him....
2006-09-29 10:34:38 · answer #10 · answered by Hahaha... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep him out of your way,since you know what a chaet and double standard he is i dont need to explain things to you,you know where it can lead to if you have to get into his sweet trap again.
thank your lucky stars for having you saved from this guy before he did something really bad to you and hurt you more!!good luck!!
2006-09-29 10:37:17 · answer #11 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋