Hey, all me and my bf have been going out for 5 mo. now and something is happening. We were doing fine this summer in fact it was the best time of my life but now that we are both in school(we go to the same school) everything seems to have changed. Here's what i mean: All these guys are going after me even though they now i have a bf and even though i don't flirt with them. My bf knows this and has to deal with it because he knows it's not his fault. Everyone tells me im too good and pretty for him but i like him despite what they think. The thing is he knows he's got me and hes happy about that but lately i think hes been trying to make me jealous or somthing because he has a lot and i mean ALOT of friends that are girls and he flirts with them...or at least thats how it comes off to me. I don't understand why when he has such a good thing why does he have to flirt with other girls like that. i mean yeah other guys like me but i don't flirt with them. guys or girls plz help.
2006-09-29 03:13:45 · 20 answers · asked by danichika 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cause a scene the next time a guy hits on you.Scream loudly. "I HAVE A BOYFRIEND WILL YOU GET THE FLUCK AWAY FROM ME??!! "
Looking back at the other answers I have to agree with tuffy.This is not a big problem.Look at the news sometime,and you will see what a big problem looks like.
2006-09-29 03:19:36 · answer #1 · answered by hott.dawg™ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
since you have the liberty of playing romeo and Juliet,remember what led to the demise of the true love ,confirmations of the facts. Bitter insecurities are coupled with inexpert communication,leads to the demise of poppy love,academically I would hope that you do not do the same since it is when you need it the most,a few years from now you will understand the value of a true orgasm and love as a daily necessity,your future is uncertain and you are going to need every energy to devote to making lifelong decisions,and you are making it more uncertain by being a statistic for pregnancy,disease,unproductive habits and poor academic achievements,these are the elements that bring out the true woman that you are supposed to be and when you look back at today you will laugh.Ask any adult if when they were young what was the single most thing that would have improved their quality of life and if they are honest they would tell you if they had done a little better in school. boyfriends are like the fleeting wind ,husbands are a lifetime partner,are you preparing for the challenges ahead,straighten up and fly right and reap the rewards,god bless.
2006-09-29 03:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by delmy d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give each other some breathing space! I'm sure u both are still young.
One thing's for sure, guys love to flirt, no matter whether he's got a gf or not. So he's normal. If u trust each other, there's no worrying abt who is flirting with who. If u really want to test whether he still loves u or not, try flirting the guys! If he's jealous, he will show it. Then u could tell that he still loves u.
Spend more time with him and be with him whenever u're in school too!
All the best!
2006-09-29 03:22:45 · answer #3 · answered by AL75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is, girls mature faster than boys and your boyfriend is still too much a boy and too little a man to know a good thing when he has it. As far as other guys telling you that you're too good for him, well, that's just self-serving--they want you for themselves. I think you should be clear with him about how you feel regarding other women in his life and about his flirting. If he cannot control this or want to end it, then you might consider doing the ending before he does with the new girlfriend thing I bet will happen.
2006-09-29 03:19:02 · answer #4 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello danichika,
I'm sorry, but this all sounds so junior high. You guys need to talk more, and stop all of these other people from effecting what you think of each other. OK? He's still with you, isn't he.
If you are uneasy about these other girls that he talks to, try to get to know them better. You'll find that these girls are really cool and you probably have a lot in common with them (besides your boy friend).
Good luck.
--Rick
2006-09-29 03:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's insecure and is flirting with these other girls to boost his ego. You've made it clear you want to be with him. I would talk to him and let him know that what he's doing is hurtful. If the situation were reversed, I'm sure he wouldn't like it. If he can't trust you, and stop flirting with the other girls, then you should dump him. He needs to trust you and get over his insecurity. How he feels about himself is not your problem, it's his.
2006-09-29 03:19:33 · answer #6 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just so you know, this is NOT a big problem. People are starving, getting blown up, have cancer, have AIDS, or worse. But your bf is just feeling insecure because of all the attention you are getting. Give him some more of your attention and he will be fine....and try not to be such a drama queen.
2006-09-29 03:18:30 · answer #7 · answered by tuffy2112 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-15 08:24:05 · answer #8 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bf has an inferiority complex like every other male out there without a God complex, he needs to flirt with these girls to feel macho i guess.
tell hm to jack up and treat you with all the respect that you deserve or you might consider leaving him.
2006-09-29 03:19:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know how guys are, e is just feeling insecure so just le him know that you are with him and there is no where you woud rather be. Probably the guys who are flirting with are jealous of your relationship and want to destroy it. Hold your own girl protect your relationship
2006-09-29 03:21:29 · answer #10 · answered by destiny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋