What do you think I should do?

Question

I was very drunk last night and my best female friend was drunk also. When I took her home, she kissed me passionately and grab my ****. I, of couse, kissed her back but took her hand off my ****. I made out with her for over an hour though. Yeah, you can say I reached 2nd base with her. Do you think what I did is wrong? What do you think I should have done?

Answer 1

yeah, i think you should have gone all the way

Answer 2

You may need to have a conversation.... some friendships can survive this, some can't.....

Just make sure you are both on the same page... if it really was a drunken night, you can write it off as that. But perhaps you need ground rules now..... like, it's ok if that happens, or it's not because you value your friendship too much.....

Perhaps it was time for your friendship to evolve to the next level, and the alcohol lowered your (and her) inhibitions.... this is often how real loving relationships start.... great friends who for whatever reason realize it's more than that....

Please please talk with her... there is no right or wrong answer... as long as she wasn't screaming "no no!" then you just followed her lead....

Answer 3

Hey if you were both drunk, and it sounds like you were both kissing each other then I don't see a problem with it. Maybe this will lead to something more than just friendship between the two of you.

Answer 4

lol- well this is a toughy. One time I was very drunk and ended up making out with a friend, lol. The next day i did not remembe a thing but they told me that the whole time I kept moaning and calling them by my real sweeties name, lol. I would say ask her if she even remembers. If she does go for it- if you 2 are friends u will make excellent lovers. No u are not wrong for doing this :)

Answer 5

Wow, that's kind of cool! lol Well, if you want an honest answer,....you probably should have stopped it, IF she wanted to she could claim that you took advantage of her and you might get into some trouble, but I doubt it, since it didn't get too sexual. But, usually the guy is at fault when it comes to sex and alcohol, that's when the double standard finally comes into the female's favor! lol, no but really, she seemed like she was enjoying herself and you did too, so .....you can't change the past, so don't worry about it, stuff happens, but i'd definately bring it up with her

Answer 6

You did what most of us would do under the circustances. Anyway, do be careful about getting caught in such situations, you never know who else fell into such a situation with her. Seems like either she likes you or she does that with men that end up in that situation with her. Find out which is which and if you find that she likes you, bang her some more.

Answer 7

Nothing you were drunk it happens to the best of us but if i were you i would give her a call and talk about what happened last night just so nothing gets messed up

Answer 8

I think what you did was good, you didnt let it get too far. I would have a discussion about it with her though because maybe she has feelings for you that she only felt comfortable expressing when she had a few drinks.

Answer 9

shes so hot dsts y she did like dat. as a guy,u shdnt hv fetched hr hme at 1st pt. mayb u cn go wif hr till the void deck. u shd hv slapped hr till she became awake 4rm the drunk.

Answer 10

You should have sealed the deal son!!!! She grabbing onto your pecker and you stopped her? Dude that is the stuff dreams are made of. You should have went in for the kill brother. Although good for you for respecting her like that, but who knows when you will get a chance like that again.

Answer 11

Well, you didn't take advantage of the situation, so that's a good thing, but maybe you want to look at why you drank so much.