I need help finding a way to ask this girl out but I'm nervous. I want to know how she feels about me first but it's hard finding the right words and breaking the ice and finding the mood or right time to ask her or even how. Any advice is greatly appreicated.
2006-09-29 03:09:42 · 8 answers · asked by Prime Hunter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do not have nerves of steel when it come to asking girls out, so "just going up to her" won't for me, there's no friends of hers that lives close enough to either of us and the only friend close to me lives almost 10 miles away, so does anyone have any other suggestions?
2006-09-29 03:42:22 · update #1
Go up to her, look her in the eyes and ask if you could take her on a date, she may well see how nervous you are but that will pobably help things - ie - she'll be flattered and say yes, or let you down gently. Either way just do it - 10 seconds of bravado is better than weeks/months/years of regrets..
go for it!
2006-09-29 03:12:43 · answer #1 · answered by Tiger01204 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How well do you know this person? Are you classmates, co-workers, friends etc... Do you hang out in similar circles? Sometimes a neutral mutual friend can help by planting a little bug in her ear. If you are not comfortable with that then why not keep it casual and ask her out for a coffee or something non-threatening like, let's grab some lunch but set a time so you don't just leave her hanging as to when and where. Being nervous is normal especially when you want to ask someone out, but if you don't, then you miss out on an opportunity that could develop into something more. And really, what's the worst that could happen, she could say no. Ok I know that sucks but at least you would know. Life is too short to be passing up chances, especially with your chance at love or even just getting to know people on a different level. One opportunity always leads to another. Good Luck!!
2006-09-29 10:21:10 · answer #2 · answered by pussnboots333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to handle the situation is to speak from your heart. Honest and open are your best options. Come right out and ask for some of her free time when available. When she gives you her time tell her exactly what's on your mind and let her make the next move.
2006-09-29 10:17:23 · answer #3 · answered by PRINCESSE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Prime Hunter,
You need to gather up all of your courage and ask her out to a movie. Give her at least half a week before the date, so there's less chance of her being too busy. The worst that she can say is no. So, don't worry about it.
Good luck.
--Rick
2006-09-29 10:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have her email address?
Not everyone would choose that option, but personally, I'd much rather get to know someone via email.
Another option is alcohol, but I'm not sure if you're old enough.
2006-09-29 10:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by Dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry buddy, I can't answer you this as I am also in similar boat. But I feel your pain! As they say, ASK HER! Hope I could do this too. From where you are?
2006-09-29 10:14:38 · answer #6 · answered by I_wish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know any of her friends? Or does she know yours? Maybe you can get one of them to ask her so that you dont have to be all embarassed when you tell her how you feel.
2006-09-29 10:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by prettyn'stylin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask her how she feels, she aint feelin
2006-09-29 10:16:04 · answer #8 · answered by jokedrugs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋