Because if you learn how to read people, it will be much easier. Since after you talk to them, you know that some do not want to be your friends. After you talk to some of the people, you know that some people wants to be your friend. How are you suppose to read people well?
2006-09-29 03:07:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just do not read them, just talk to them without thinking about it.
2006-10-06 13:22:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very good at reading people and I don't like it. I wish I could just take the good from everyone and focus on that rather than "reading" into them and discovering things that turn me off from them. I don't have very many "true friends" because of this, which is okay, but it's hard to accept fake people into my world. I'm too caring, giving, and compassionate to surround myself with those who'll bring me down. You, on the other hand, can just love people for what you know about them and be content with that. Put it this way, I have a lot of aquaintances, few friends. I accept everyone and love everyone for who they are, but I choose not to surround myself with those who could bring me down.
2006-09-29 10:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is something some of us learn very early in life. It probably requires one to do a lot of observing without interacting. Listen to what is being said and by whom, watch facial expressions, and note what happens. If you get IT right, someday someone will look at you and say, with a mixture of awe and anger and questioning inflection, You can't read my mind! You don't know what I'm thinking!?
2006-09-29 10:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by connie_mspt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you can;t really read people you just know them so well like family or friends you can finish their sentences. To read people you are talking about body language then and you really can't do that. Just have faith and hope for the best and just tell yourself that it is what it is. Trust your instinct.
cheers darlin
2006-09-29 10:11:45 · answer #4 · answered by scully_22ps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always go deeper than the surface. Read between the lines with everything they say.
Look them in the eye, if their pupils expand, they like you!
Check their body language. If their feet are pointing towards you, it normally indicates interest. If they are sitting with their arms crossed, defensively, and their legs and feet facing away, be on your guard.
Most of all, trust your first impression, because it is normally always right!
2006-09-29 10:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by Dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use your instincts. Watch how they treat other people. Mainly, you can read people by listening and watching, when they are speaking to you.
2006-09-29 10:10:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋