I'm not asking about how morally wrong it is to cheat ... but if the situation is such that the bf is just too busy to give his gf what she needs, would it help her to get what she needs from someone else?
The bf in this case just doesn't get it, this is his first relationship. He's an adult with a very time stressful demanding job and the gf understands the importance of the job, but she needs more. She loves everything else about him though.
2006-09-29 03:00:11 · 8 answers · asked by shellsandscripts 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would mention to him that if he wont spend time with you will spend time with a male friend. By doing this you wont be cheating on him but it will put into his head that you could be capable and then he would wanna spend more time with you.
It worked for me
2006-09-29 03:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by desrine_t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey lonely heart, no it won't help you at all. in fact you will will sick after wards, because its from your bf that you really want the attention from, and no cheating will not make him pay any more attention to you. Yes and I do think that cheating is wrong and you if you have to do it, then you don't need to be with your bf. if he is not giving you what you need then leave the relationship. it's apparent that the job comes first. at least for right now anyway.
2006-09-29 10:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by Proverbs 31 women 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure it will help if you break up with him, not everything in life is going to be perfect, and it sounds like you might be a little selfish, not everything in the world is about you, it is a job, which is money for the future and is something every person should have so if you have a problem with a man working too much then you need to find someone with a different career, don't go stickin a knife in his back, he doesn't deserve that. All he is trying to do is make a living.
2006-09-29 10:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by brunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it won't help going elsewhere while in the relationship. If she wants to sleep with other people then she needs to leave the relationship. Once she leaves the relationship then she can get whatever she wants from whoever she wants. But saying she loves everything else about the guy isn't love at all.
2006-09-29 10:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by The Plague 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably ought to find a new bf, rather than being a sl*t and cheating. OR, be honest and tell him that you plan to sleep around if he doesn't give you all that you demand. Yeah, that will work, really make him love and desire you.
2006-09-29 10:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will not help her emotionally to cheat. Most women feel guilty when they cheat even if they don't like to admit it to themselves. She should sit down with her boyfriend or get rid of him so he can be with someone who will understand him more. Cheating never draws you closer.
2006-09-29 10:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't believe it will. if she's going to feel guilty about it how can that help her out emotionally? if she doesn't feel she has her boyfriend's undivided attention and she's not happy then the best thing would be for her to break it off with him but also let him know why.
2006-09-29 10:28:35 · answer #7 · answered by ana g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself if you are content to lose him because if you cheat he will leave you.
2006-09-29 10:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by confusedpatricia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋