My boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months and he and i are trying to have a baby and I just can't seem to get pregnant. any one have any suggestions....sexual postions to try? ways to easily get pregnant? I am 24 and overweight but should that be a problem?
i just had my period for this month and i have been feeling sick to my stomach
2006-09-29 02:46:15 · 10 answers · asked by babiegurl 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
If you have regular periods, you shouldn't theoretically have any trouble. They say most couples are pregnant within one year of trying, so you have time on your side.
Try the missionary position, it's best for pregnancy, and then rest on your back with your feet elevated for 10 minutes afterwards. Also, have sex every other day. This really helps you to always have a good supply of sperm in your fallopian tubes for when you ovulate.
Best of luck!!
2006-09-29 02:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on your weight, that shouldn't be a problem. I was about 30 lbs overweight when I got pregnant with my first child. I also had my period well into the 3rd month (although it was lighter than normal)
You can also work yourself into feelings of pregnancy when you really want to be pregnant.
Just relax and don't stress about getting pregnant- that may cause your hormones to get out of whack.
But my question is, do you really want to get pregnant with someone that you have only been with for 6 months? Not to lecture you, but a baby is a lifetime commitment. Maybe you guys should try out a puppy and make sure that you are going to make it through the long haul.
2006-09-29 02:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by ircutietoo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every womans body is different, and that doesn't change anything about her getting pregnant. (unless medical reasons) You being over weight does not mean anything. I may be the only one, but I do not think sexual positions help anything, as long as sperm gets in! You may be feeling sick because you are pregnant, (have you took a pregnancy test) or you may be sick from the stress of trying so hard to get pregnant. Don't try so hard, sometimes stress plays a factor in it. I would start keeping a chart on your ovulation date and try then, if it takes too long, maybe you should try to see a doctor and see if there is any reason why you wouldn't be able to get pregnant...Good luck and take Care!
2006-09-29 02:53:46 · answer #3 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you're still very young at 24 some might say you're also immature. How about careers or an engagement then marriage. If you can't commit to any of this then you aren't ready. And think long term, would you want you're child running off having a baby with someone they only knew for 6 months
2006-09-29 07:42:29 · answer #4 · answered by tguz1010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Don't have kids if you have only known a guy 6 months.
2. Get married BEFORE you try to get pregnant.
3. After those two things are done, you can get pregnant easier if you just lose 10 pounds.
4. Take prenatal vitamins, or your baby could have serious birth defects.
Why would you want to make a child after only dating 6 months and risk your child not having a father? I wish your baby luck.
2006-09-29 04:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by gg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you need to find out when you ovulate. This is easy and not too expensive if you purchase urine ovulation tests. You wee on them for a few certain days of the month and if the line gets stronger thats the time to be bonking. Being overweight can affect your fertility but you would have too be massively overweight for this to make a lot of difference. You only have a 20% chance each month of getting pregnant so it takes time for most couples. Good luck.
2006-09-29 02:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't start your relationship with a baby.
The majority of divorces occur when couples start out pregnant, or get pregnant very soon after they're together, be it through marriage or living together.
Take it from someone who knows...get to know your partner first, get all of your "playing" done...then, when it's time for kids, your relationship is so much stronger and you know you can count on each other for support.
I have been married almost 12 years now. I have PCOS and fibroid tumors (the PCOS made me gain a BOATLOAD of weight, too!!!). Everytime we got pregnant, we'd miscarry.
We just adopted our 9 year old son and 10 year old daughter, and things are PURE BLISS!!! I am glad our relationship was solidly founded first.
I can honestly look back on the miscarriages and see that at the age and stage we were in our life back then (almost 10 years ago now), we weren't ready for a baby then.
Please just consider...again, from someone who's been there.
Best of luck whatever you decide.
2006-09-29 02:56:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you've only been 2-gether for 6 months? why are you trying to have a baby already? you 2 should be spending time getting to know each other, and enjoying each other. because after you have a baby it's really going to strain your relationship. just because you WANT a baby does not mean youre ready for one. wait and live your lives before you bring a baby into this relationship. this baby is going to need both of you.
2006-09-29 03:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by lidakamo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r serious about this problem than go 2 doc.and check both of u,and if there is no solution by madical than u contact me on yahoo messe.my ID is lokee999.
2006-09-29 03:00:11 · answer #9 · answered by lokee999 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Six months is a short time to be planning to have a child.Maybe it's a sign from god.
2006-09-29 05:28:03 · answer #10 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋