I think she likes me too. Problem is she lives in my house, and I'm finding it difficult holding back whenever my wife is out of town. I need urgent advice. Please, h-e-l-p!!!
2006-09-29 02:34:19 · 25 answers · asked by Bobo N 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Depends if it's your wife's sister or your brother's wife. Wait... really doesn't matter. Nail her! Nail her today and let us know how it was!
2006-09-29 02:38:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Imagine your absolute worst nightmare coming true!
If you let this temptation enter your imagination phase and let run and then turn into the actual act you have just signed and sealed your own fate. The 30 minutes to and hour of sexual gradification will have a price tag that you are not prepared to pay.
Your soul for one, eventually the guilt of your unrestrained act will either surface in a confession that will cause you to be forever stigmatized and outcast from the family and some friends. The sleepless nights that will come and I promise you they will come for fear of being revealed and that knock on the door you`ll always expect or the phone call. Then theres the divorce and your causing it, what are you going to do? Marry her too. Then she will turn around and do the very same thing to you.
You see it is better to turn this imagery around right now. When it comes as lust of the flesh, turn it to anger toward the one who is tempting you, if indeed she is.
You just don`t have a clue as to the unbelievable amount of heart ache and pain this will cause everyone connected to you and her.
Masturbate if thats all you can do when it hits but eventually you`ll either have to learn to get away from it or move away to save yourself and everyone around you.
I`ve seen this sort of thing up close in families, I`ve seen people never awaken due to a bullet being put between their eyes while they sleep.
Take care and God`s speed on getting this under control.
2006-09-29 02:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't you love your wife? how can you dishonor her, and hurt her so bad? To sleep with anyone would hurt her so much, but her sister? That would destroy so many lives. Have some honor in your life and uphold your wife. You can never take back having sex with someone. Even if your wife doesn't find out, you will know. Forever.
2006-09-29 02:46:40 · answer #3 · answered by 2ndchhapteracts 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Read the story of Jacob in the Book of Genesis every day when your wife is out of town, think of all the trouble getting involved with Sisters caused him, and look in the mirror and say to yourself, "I will not let that happen to me," five times every morning. And talk to your wife and sister-in-law about it.
2006-09-29 02:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What do you do?
Whenever you feel the urge or you cant hold back, leave and go to pray. If you are a christain read your bible, a muslim read the Quran and seek forgiveness. God will take away the lustful thinking, but first you only have to agree and believe that its just lustful thinking.
2006-09-29 02:48:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hand off, Bobo, unless you want to alienate your wife and the rest of your family for life. Would it really be worth it? There are billions of women in the world. Get out of the house and find one who is single.
2006-09-29 02:41:04 · answer #6 · answered by Kathryn™ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're JOB as a MAN is to RESIST the TEMPTATIONS. PRAY everytime you're being tempted and THINK ABOUT THIS.........IF you do act on your feelings then you've immediately hurt three people, you, your wife and your wife's sister and three souls, and Three of the trinity ,.........then the spiral downward effect of everyone involved and all those they come in contact with.... and so on....and so on....Can You Live with ALL That Guilt and Responsibilty........SEE, it's EASY to not sin, JUST THINK ABOUT IT. God Bless
2006-09-29 02:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOL, calm done..incest :P Just make your mvoe when ya wife leaves :p not like shes real family anyways (from the devil side of dan ) wll i suppose not try think about something you like, and/or love other than women think about sports or soemthing channel your incest for your sister-in-law into something creative (angel ide of dan) : either way whatever floats your boat.
2006-09-29 02:38:33 · answer #8 · answered by dan 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Again,
embrace Islam, u are allowed up to 4 wives to controlled your sexual urges. But please ask the other wife for permission first, and make sure u can treat them all fair.
2006-09-29 02:44:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to your wife about it, and then talk to them both about it together. That will cause your sister-in-law to back off, and it might convince your wife to rethink the living arangements.
2006-09-29 02:37:28 · answer #10 · answered by Sifu Shaun 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
This is not Love, it's purely lust...she's married and u are too..I'm assuming that you're both happily married (obviously to diff pple) then why ruin it.
2006-09-29 02:37:40 · answer #11 · answered by Luv Peace 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋