My day (a 'looks matters' story and great reason to end my life because I ain't physically attractive)

Question

Well today, for one of the few times I actually stopped being self-concious about my looks. You see, for me going out gets my mind off such an issue that has the potency to destroy a person's life. Only when I was leaving for the bus, I came out of the precinct jiggling along to my iPod, when I cut across the path of two guys. One of them was I think shorter than me, short black hair, tight top accentuating muscles. I assume he might have been a builder. He posed as a threat to my humble looks, and yet he was eating a BLOODY TAKE-AWAY!! Something we all do. Despite this, I look across to my right having just used the pedestrian crossing, and I see a people-carrier with three-four girls in it stopped at the red light....the blonde driving was boggle-eyed and mouth open, the front passenger, about 13-15 looked across to her with the biggest toothiest smile. Watching this, I reflected on my life, remembering all the riducule and scorn girls gave me, and thought about suicide.

Answer 1

More important than looks is confidance. I know that it seems like rubbish, but especially for a guy, great confidance and a good personality can go a very long way.

Answer 2

You know, if you're concerned about your physical appearance, there's not much you can do to alter your face. But if it really bugs you do this. Lift weights, get cut up, girls love this, even if your face isn't the best, they'll all want to feel your body, on top of this become a well dressed mother fuc*er, Whoever said clothes make the man was absolutely right. Of course this requires work, and perhaps more work than commiting suicide, which you shouldn't do. Just commit the time to change yourself if you really want something.

Answer 3

I know where ur coming from with wanting to die. It's a daily struggle. However trust me when I tell you what really counts is on the inside of a person. Any girl who's honest won't b w/u 4 looks it'll b 4 the kind loving person ur inside! It's hard but well worth the wait. Hang in there I did. Now I have two teenagers.

Answer 4

Welcome to the club. Variety is the spice of life. You are having too much time to spend looking upon yourself,you should turn your look outwards and look at all the misery that people endure around you.then you would realize that you are not alone in your problems.this may very well be your personal challenge to find your level of happiness no matter what comes your way.but to get to that level you have to go through this one.As there is a translation in Spanish that says(,hope dies last) if you believe it or not ,you have untapped talents and potential that are unrealized.Do not let what people say to affect you because they do not live your life,keep working harder on yourself and all your aspirations will fall into place ,good luck, chin up.

Answer 5

Looks are only skin deep! It's what is in heart that counts. People who have to make faces or comments about another persons looks are insecure about themselves. We were all put here on earth to love and care for someone. There is someone out there for all of us. I think if your intentions are good and your a caring nice person that is what's important in life. You need to think positive about everything and positive things will happen. Set goals for yourself and accomplish them as you go. As far as a social life goes, hang out with considerate types not the ones who think there better than any one else. Hold your head up high and ignore bad people. Cocoa

Answer 6

I don't know your age, probably you are very young, otherwise you should know that outside look is nothing comparing with your inner beauty. OK, write! , you are going to say. But it is the truth.
But, the problem is that in the peoples mind there is something definitely wrong, because they usually enter in your soul after they give some score to your look.
The point is, try to do something about this thing. Maybe you don't care about your look, but have you ever tried to make something about it. Who knows, miracles happens

Answer 7

~Looks do not make who we are inside...sadly alot of children hurt others with no guilt...but as we grow and learn no one is perfect....if they have great looks they are most likely to be horrible people inside...God made you for a reason and you can't take that away from him...everyone gets teased..it takes a strong person to relize that the other person is probably feeling bad about themselves and taking it out on you..people can be meen but always remember Beauty is in the eye of the beholder...soooo just because 1 person thinks you are not good looking there is someone out there that thinks you are beautiful~~~> :o}

Answer 8

Learn to love yourself more. Try to look more into your good qualities to build up your self esteem. Committing suicide is not the answer to your problem. And physical appearance is not a great excuse to commit suicide.

Answer 9

Sweetie I am not that atrractive and I have never used it as an excuse to consider ending my life. Sounds like you have some deeper issues you need to work through. And BTW--you aren't unattractive. I find you quite pleasant to look at.

Answer 10

hey there, please don't talk that way you are a good looking man and never let someone make you feel that your not. and commenting suicide is not the way to fix the problem if you want someone to talk to i would be happy to talk with you. just think about all the great things you would miss in your life, finding that right person for you that makes you feel so special and loves you for who you are.