he is a great guy but i just cant be attracted to me... we have been seeing eachother for about 4 months now and he is the kindest sweetest thing i have ever met but i just cant find him attractive in that way.... HELP
2006-09-29 02:12:44 · 9 answers · asked by hopeless 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hopeless, you need to tell him face to face! The best thing to do is to tell him that he is very sweet, and kind, and will make someone a Great boyfriend someday, but it's just not you. Let him know all the good things that you really like about him and just explain that you don't feel the same way he does. Let him know that you really want to remain friends because he is an awesome guy, and that no matter what you will always be there for him as a friend.
It's hard to find guys that are very sweet and mean well, and do things for you because they do love you not because they just want something. So don't text him, or write him a letter, because he deserves more than that.Just don't say it then walk away talk this through with him, help him to understand and don't leave any questions un answered!
It's crazy that most of us women fall for the guys who are the worst for us????? When we all know a man that is so sweet and kind but we like the ones that have a back bone if you know what I mean!
Good Luck to you But let him down easy and answer ay questions he has! You two will probbully become the best of friends!
Always Amy
2006-09-29 02:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by heart2heart27958 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
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your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.
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2006-09-29 02:17:29 · answer #2 · answered by anna a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is let him go before things get too serious. The last thing that you would want to do is lead him on because he might be falling in love. You don't want to break his heart. So do the right thing before it is too late.
2006-09-29 02:20:41 · answer #3 · answered by Mz. Chavis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no other way but to talk to him and be straightforward. be true to him, be true to yourself, pity is not a noble thing to do, so just do it. the truth shall set you free
2006-09-29 02:17:15 · answer #4 · answered by dede 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you ask him what he likes/dislikes and find out his horoscope sign you guys may not be compatible or you should just remain friends.
2006-09-29 02:16:30 · answer #5 · answered by ladibuggdanni2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you need to talk..say your not ready for that kind of commitment..and you need time to sort out your priorities..you need to be gentle, let down easily
2006-09-29 02:17:02 · answer #6 · answered by green_skittle1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that your feelings have not grown.
2006-09-29 02:17:03 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
text him
2006-09-29 02:14:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him down gently
2006-09-29 02:14:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋