What about all the poor innocent schmucks like myself who just react biologically and put up no resistance when a girl is madly in love with me and she practically does the whole act herself? Why do you always assume I lied and assured the girl I'd take care of her?
2006-09-29 01:56:19 · 23 answers · asked by overseas and broke 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
It takes two to tango. I never place all the blame on the guy, because both have the opertunity and concious mind to say no.
2006-09-29 01:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by sister steph 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
easily no longer....having a baby isn't a intense college drama challenge. also no longer all adult adult males are alluring 24/7?? you should continually use safe practices if you're not to any extent further making plans on having a toddler. If the female is on the pill the guy ought to nevertheless placed on a condom only for added safe practices. it isn't honest to the youngster to must be raised in a one make sure relatives as a results of selfishness and absentmindedness. sex is going both techniques at the same time as it involves declaring no. only because you do not say no does no longer mean that it is your fault that you receive pregnant. no longer employing ideal safe practices innovations makes it both male and woman's fault if the female will change into pregnant.
2016-11-25 02:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like people have already said to you, it takes two to tango, buddy boy. If you were worried about it, which you obviously weren't, you should have had your own contraceptive with you. What, you never heard of a rubber? Don't give us that "react biologically" BS either. What are you, a chimpanzee? You're a human being (supposedly) and it's up to you to take responsibility for your own body and future. If a girl is immature enough to throw herself at you (uh-huh, you wish) and it offends your modesty and high-flown ideals (yeah right) then it's up to you to say no. Poor innocent? My butt. Schmuck? Oh yeah, big time.
2006-09-29 02:08:24 · answer #3 · answered by Nightlight 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
When a girl gets pregnant out of wedlock, barring rape, it is two people's fault. Both parties must take responsibility for their actions. IF they are going to have sex & do NOT want to produce a child, both must be willing to take some precautions. Let's face it, making babies is basically, at the biological level, what having sex is all about. Nature, or God(?) made it fun, so people would enjoy the act & want to do it, so the species would continue. But if you are going to do it for fun and NOT take any precautions, guess what is going to happen!
2006-09-29 02:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by harridan5 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Surely somebody had to have explained to you how babies are made. You both made a choice, and choices come with consequences and responsibilities. At least that is how it is in the adult world where we have the right to choose to have sex---or not. How you felt about each other while you were having sex is beside the point. Obviously, the consequences don't change because of your personal feelings---unless perhaps you had a legal contract with her stating that you would not be responsible should a child be the result of your actions.
2006-09-29 02:15:48 · answer #5 · answered by Witchy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's both of your faults! I have four sons, two of which are teen-agers. I have been telling them that birth control is both partners responsibility. Never assume that a girl is on birth control. You need to take out five seconds to protect yourself, not only from pregnancy but other more serious problems. (like AIDS).
I don't think you are a bad person, but your excuses are poor. I don't care if she threw herself at you. If you respect yourself and your life, you'd have used a condom. If you can't control yourself and live with the consequences of unprotected sex, DON'T DO IT!
2006-09-29 02:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just read your other questions...you claimed that you never loved her, so you just "reacted" biologically...funny, I can control my urges. I can choose to not use a girl for sex. Schmucks like you are the reason why this world is over populated. If you're not responsible enough to raise kids, you're not responsible enough to have sex.
Go back to the prostitutes instead.
2006-09-29 02:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by James P 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If the girl was so madly in love with you and you knew that if anything happened (like pregnancy), then you wont be able to take care of her, then didn't God give you enough brains and balls to say NO, you dumbass....I dont think the girl or the guy are innocent when this happens....Girls are stupid enough to think that they are in love an dthat the guy will take care of them forever and guys...well...guys are ruled by a dick.
2006-09-29 02:00:30 · answer #8 · answered by Luv Peace 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ya know, that's just sorry ! That's what that is !
You are the Man, The responsibility is yours. You didn't have to pull out your tool and go to work.........OK ? Get it !
I am not saying she isn't wrong too, but she couldn't do anything without your help ! You could of left it alone, you could of left, don't blame it on her that you got horny, if you didn't want it why did you get it ? Boy, you might be poor, but you ain't innocent !
2006-09-29 02:35:17 · answer #9 · answered by Minister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because girl can not get pregnant by herself. You had persuaded to have unprotected sex because you enjoy it that way.
For you no problem but the girl has to carry the baby inside and later take care of the baby until he or she is self supportive.
2006-09-29 02:00:40 · answer #10 · answered by Rammohan 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
when the biological urges overcome both parties common sense this spells disaster. you both are in an unpleasant situation but now it is to late to lock the door once the horse is stolen. get help according to answers in first question but be a man and accept the responsibilities for your own actions.
2006-09-29 02:12:50 · answer #11 · answered by Marvin R 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋