Are any men really faithful in a relationship?

Question

I never feel loved when I am with a man. They always lie to me and or cheat. Yet at the same time I am so tired of being alone...HELP...PLEASE ANYONE??

Answer 1

i know what it feels like to love someone and never felt what it feels like to have someone love me back...i tell them i adore them and my intensions are honourable but as it ends im still alone wondering why...being alone sucks and if you want to chat compare stories etc,please email me..

Answer 2

If you find yourself laying in bed at night alone and feeling lonely and wishing that there was someone next to you, take comfort in the fact that most, if not all, single people feel that way at some time or another. It is not at all uncommon, but it can be a problem when it causes you to settle for the first man or woman that comes along in an effort to avoid feeling lonely.

If loneliness avoidance is something that has motivated you to get into relationships in the past, it is important to recognize that this is absolutely not a healthy reason for being in relationship. If you choose to wait for Mr. or Ms. Right to come along instead, you will be getting into a relationship with the right person for the right reasons and then you won't have to feel lonely ever again. You will be with that person for a lifetime. If you don't wait and get into the first relationship that comes along, chances are it will not work out and you will continue to experience periods of loneliness until you learn this important lesson.

Being single does not actually have to mean feeling lonely. Distract yourself from feeling lonely by making it a point to spend time with good friends, take up a new hobby, read the books you've been wanting to read for what seems like forever, watch whatever you want to watch on television whenever you want to watch it, schedule to spend quality time with your children and/or pets on a daily or weekly basis or... doing anything your heart desires while you're single and waiting for the love of your life to come along. We all know that once Mr. or Ms. Right comes along that we will do less of these things anyway as the time once spent occupying ourselves is now spent doing things with our significant other. And, many people find that they really enjoy being single as long as they keep busy with the things that are important to them.

The quickest way out of your loneliness funk if you absolutely can't seem to get out of it is to get out of the house and volunteer! Retirement or nursing homes are filled with lonely people who never have anyone come to visit. You can easily find someone to spend time with who is probably way more lonely than you ever thought of being. Just spending as little as half an hour visiting with someone will end up helping both of you beyond measure. It doesn't matter what kind of volunteering you do, you will feel better because you will have taken the focus off of yourself feeling lonely and put the focus on others and their needs. There is little, if anything, that can be more rewarding than this if you're feeling down in the dumps and need a little pick-me-up

Sooner or later ur faithful beau will show up in 1day. Nobody can predict wat happen 2'em nxt.

Hope u will found a faithful beau 2b with u 2eternal.
Hope dis can help u..............

Answer 3

You should never be with anyone just because u are lonely. All u get in return is loneliness times ten plus some regret. I know how u feel, i had to learn the same thing the hard way. If u dont feel loved or comfortable, then dont stay. Point blank. Find you somebody who is right for you.

Answer 4

Have you heard of Madea? One of the last plays Tyler Perry did was called "Madea Goes to Jail". In this play they do a seen on loneliness and relationships and being comfortable with yourself, whether alone or not. Watch this play and listen to what she's saying. The message is oh so true. Plus you'll have a couple of laughs, you'll forget about being lonely.

Answer 5

Hello Lost and Lonely,

Most guys have no reason to fool around if they are getting what they want in their relationship. If a guy really loved you, they wouldn't stop calling you. Maybe if you found a guy like that, you would be totally bored with them.

Instead you go for these guys that are aloof. The nice guys simply don't have a chance with you. You don't even see them around you. That's amazing. Well, perhaps you need to start rethinking what you do, if it's not working for you.

Best of luck to you. Happy hunting.

--Rick

Answer 6

Some men are very faithful. When looking for a partner, not in the drinking or dancing place but careful selection.

Answer 7

Yes, many men actually are faithful in relationships...you just have to keep looking until you find a good one....what kind of men do you usually go for? Maybe that's the problem....

Answer 8

i got stuck with a lot of guys like that to and now I'm with the best guy ever he does not lie to me and he wouldn't cheat on me BC he has got cheated on in the past and hurt really bad. but there is some one out there for u i know u hear it all the time but there really is

Answer 9

u have choices here
1) stop going to bars to get men
2) become a lesbein no men no problems
3) dont give a man sex as soon as u start dating him wait to see if he is worth it
4) be realistic and not have high expectations from men. just let them be themselves.
5) u r just attracting the wrong typr of men. maybe a make over would help. the way u dress and ur hairstyle. hell it will give ur self esteem a boost and thats what i think u need any way
best of luck

Answer 10

I am always faithful in my relationships. I really honsestly dont think I could cheat I would feel too bad. I dont know what to tell you sorry.

Answer 11

You know the old saying: You have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find the prince!"

Don't worry, all of us have been unlucky at love before we found Mr. Right.

Perhaps you need to go out with someone who is totally not your type and you may be amazed at the results...